No, that doesn’t make you a bad lover. Some people like it long, some people like it short. I’ve had girlfriends of each kind, and each way was different but equally good. If you get bored because you’re not into it, then maybe you’re with the wrong person?
You’re not a bad lover…you just haven’t had AMAZING sex yet! I used to go through the motions and never really wanted to be “pounded”…and then you just find someone who you love so much, you get comfortable…and then woahhhh!! WHAT WAS THAT!!! And there you have it – Amazing sex =]
Try looking up asexuality.
I’m surprised I haven’t seen anyone mention it already.
No, that doesn’t make you a bad lover. Some people like it long, some people like it short. I’ve had girlfriends of each kind, and each way was different but equally good. If you get bored because you’re not into it, then maybe you’re with the wrong person?
You’re not a bad lover…you just haven’t had AMAZING sex yet! I used to go through the motions and never really wanted to be “pounded”…and then you just find someone who you love so much, you get comfortable…and then woahhhh!! WHAT WAS THAT!!! And there you have it – Amazing sex =]