Fuck love.
I just want to get laid.
And I’m afraid to say it because I’m a girl.
Fuck love.
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i understand how you feel
i can completely relate to this, i’m the same.
but ’cause we’re female we get called sluts.
I used to have this issue, I don’t know what happened but one day it just clicked and I stopped caring what people thought. My friends all say I remind them of Samantha from Sex and the City :p. One time I my cousin who i hadn’t seen forever gave me a ride home from his friends house in the morning after we hooked up. I was soooo embarassed, drive of shame.. at the end of the car ride I just blurted it out. I’M SORRY I TURNED INTO A SLUT. He turned around laughing like Its ok I’m really slutty too. Hahahah everytime I think of that it makes me feel a little less dirt. Don’t beat yourself up! Own your promiscuality! it’s more fun than a broken heart.
I totally agree. This will be my mantra!!!!
Love doesn’t get you anywhere because no matter the reason…
Everyone ends up alone.
As long as your partners aren’t skeevy and you use protection, I don’t see what the problem is. Oh wait, yes I do: the death of women’s lib. We gotta work harder to take down the patriarchy that perpetuates the double standards of sexuality. Why can’t women have fun without being called sluts??
Love sucks, and guys are assholes. Girls should be able to sleep around… Go sluts ;]
Your body might crave sex, but sooner or later you’ll wake up next to someone and feel dead inside.
Is that really worth it?
That’s perfectly fine, it’s what i live by. Love is hard to find, a man who’s willing to screw isn’t, lol. Just make sure you’re absolutely safe about it. And remember one thing: Have fun!
YES!
You are all only saying this because you havent found true love yet. Sex is great but it is 100 times better with love. One day youll fall in love and wish you would have saved all that sex for someone who really cared about you. Being in love is the most wonderful feeling in the world
I know how you feel, I used to be the girl who wouldn’t even kiss guys in front of other people because I thought they would call me a slut, but at some point in life you have say what the fuck and do what you want, and be who you want to be, the only people who are going to speak out against you are the ones that wish they were you. Do it and have fun!
slut.
can you leave a nice comment?
I want to have sex with someone I love but I am so sexually frustrated I worry that if I get drunk I’ll just have sex with anyone.
what if we already do and sex is a way of living?
Wat kind of nice coment do u expect 4rm Jesus on the issue at hand?!?!
FINALLY I know there are other girls out there who feel like this…
Just because you haven’t found love doesn’t mean you can’t share wonderful experiences with others. You still have a responibility to treat them and yourself with humanity. Don’t “own your promiscuity”, but be sure you can be proud of your actions, by YOUR values. Recreation, relationship, and reproduction are the three reasons to have sex. Just be sure you both want the same combination of those three! Cheers!
i told one of my friends i would have a friend with benefits relationship with him this summer
i scared him away
i agree … to bad im a fifteen year old girl and no one would find this acceptable. in that sense i wish i was a man so i wouldnt be labled as a slut.
ps. i hooked up with a guy at a party and everyone thinks he took advange of me.. but in my mind i took advantage of him lmao.
Makes sence.
Been there before.
Have some fun while you can.
But dont pass up the chance to find love.
Heartbreaks suck, but sooner or later, ‘the one’ will be there.
And trust me, sex with ‘the one’ is so much more amazing than just fucking for fun.
i agree us girls always get called sluts even if we’re virgins…
That is totally normal. Our culture is just lame and tries to fight nature.
Oh I totally said this. I just got out of a two year relationship. I don’t wanna see forever in someone elses eyes. Unless they’re his. I just wanna have sex…
don’t worry about social standards.
It’s a little stupid, but this is all I can think to say. Just watch re-runs of Sex and the City. Samantha wasn’t afraid to say it.
I was thinking exactly the same thing.
My name’s Laura as well. Coincidence?
jesus would forgive them…
let people make their own choices.
doesnt jesus also say not to be judgmental?!!
maybe you should think about that.
and for the record i AM a christian.
haha
totally agree.
could never find the words to say it…
but seriously.
theres alot worse that could happen out there.
and its none of other peoples buisness what you do behind closed doors.
embrace your sexuality:)
I’m the same way.
To hell with the rest of the world. You’re just ahead of the curve, don’t worry about what the people who are still afraid might call you.
same here. 15, i’ve slept with 8+ guys.
at first i was sick of people calling me a slut.
now i kinda flaunt it. lol.
You don’t need to ‘save all that sex’ for someone you love. There are no restrictions on the amount of sex someone can have. You don’t use it all up! Sure, having sex with someone you love is wonderful, but what do you do in the mean time while you are waiting for Mr. Shining Armor? If you are not hurting yourself or anyone else, than go for it! Just be 100% sure you are doing it for the right reasons, not becase you are lonely, or think it will lead to love, or think you are somehow not worthy of a relationship. IF you have no underlying unresolved psycological issues and you honestly respect yourself and others, you have every right to explore your sexuality as much as you desire.
Jo, I don’t want to sound like every other adult preaching at you, but it looks like you really need to talk to someone. Do you have anyone? I fully advocate a healthy and responsible sex life for those that are mature enough to handle it, but at 15 you are probably not mature enough to handle everything that goes along with having that many sexual partners. Be honest with yourself. Are you letting these boys use you so they will like you? Are you letting them treat you like crap because that is the only way you know how to relate to boys? It just sounds like you were really hurt when people called you a slut, so to protect your feelings you developed the ‘I’ll show you a slut’ mentality. Jo, you’re worth more than that. I promise I am not trying to talk down to you. I just recognized a little of myself in your comment, and I don’t want you to end up facing the kind of things that I did. In fact, when I was 18 someone helped me to see that what I was doing was not empowering, but it was self-destructive. I’m now 38 and have a great husband and a great life, and I’ve learned to respect myself and demand it from others. Don’t let anyone treat you in a way that makes you feel bad. Please take care of yourself.
I gave up on the media a long time ago. And when my girl friends started calling me a slut. I got a couple of boy friends who didn’t mind that I could talk up my relationships with both guys and girls. I have slept with more people than most of my friends.
And the circle of girls who still hang out with me? Not only are they proud, but they like that they can get advice from an expert “cosmo” girl, without having to sift through all the stupid internet stuff.
Yay sluts!
I’m proud of you.
All of you, that is.
Maybe you recognized a little bit of yourself in that comment. Then again, maybe you just saw what you wanted to see and the girl just likes to screw. Not everyone who enjoys sex is mentally damaged, thanks.
I know what you mean. Everyone thinks it’s weird that girls think about sex just as much as guys, but it’s true.
People will call you a whore whether you say so or not. They’re just like that. Don’t be afraid of them.
im glad someone knew how to put it into words. Im the girl who everyone thinks is a prude when really im trying to hide what a sex freak I really am… fuck love i just want to get laid.
On June 15th, I posted a comment about how I scared my guy friend away by suggesting a friend with benefits relationship. We talked over the summer and we both feel the same way… we want to have fun with each other but neither of us are looking for a relationship at the time. I’ve gone farther with him than any other guy I’ve been with, and we’ve had a lot of fun… But I wouldn’t suggest it. It’s hard when we’re together and we see couples kissing in public and holding hands, some things we will never do. As far as getting laid, sometimes just making out (or going to third) makes you feel like you’ve gone all the way… and it gets you off almost every time…
Then you’re pathetic. And I pity you.
I am going to turn into this as soon as I completely lose my feelings for him
he left anyways.
after reading this and all the comments,
i feel so relieved to know that i’m not alone
and Jesus too
Then I’ll stop. Easy as that. If I want to have sex, then I will. If don’t, then I won’t. But if I do, I definitely won’t feel dead inside, because that would mean I didn’t.
It’s a real shame, but if you want something go after it. It’s hard, but you can’t let what people may say get you down. People who would say that, their opinions are worth less than nothing.
that sucks.
why did he get scared?
do you have any guys that know how you feel?