Everytime I cheat on you, I make sure the guy looks like you.
Same eye color, same hair color, around the same height. Not because I find those particular characteristics attractive..
Just so that in case I DO get pregnant one of these times you won’t question if its yours or not.
I’m sorry I do this.
You have no idea what is going on there. I have no idea what’s going on there. Just because you have been cheated on does not mean he is in the same position. Again, I am not condoning cheating; I’m just trying to be open…
maybe I can fly…I just have not figured out how yet! lol
I’m sure I’d be bitter too lol, but she is bitter about everything. If she lived in a castle she would want a hut and vice versa. lol Maybe I will fall in love some day, who knows right? But that does not mean I have to get married lol (that’s a horrible thing to say!! lol) My family has a history of being in horrible abusive relationships…so that just does not sound appealing to meh…You know what I have realized (completely off subject) but I have noticed that I talk about this kind of thing way more openly on the internet lol I just have to PRETEND that no one I know is reading it. Lol
My feelings about cheating/cheaters are warped and change on a regular basis.
Why don’t you stop being selfish and leave him. You don’t deserve him and you should be with someone who you love. He is to good for you. If you worry about getting pregnant you are probably not using protection which is both stupid and selfish. You are putting him at risk because you sleep around.
Why are you douchefags acting so melodramatic?
“I will not attack you…”
“Oh shut up….”
Chill out. A bitch is a bitch, but you don’t have to act like you’re arguing over something imortant.
Ok like that is the most shallow thing i have ever heard if you don’t want to have sex with that guy anymore than just stop because he is going to find out and it’s going to make you look like a complete slut i am very sorry i said that but it is the truth!
You’re a dirty, cheating whore. But Karma will run its course… You will have a bastard child that looks just like your poor husband– and it will be horribly mentally and physically handicapped, since genes run deeper than hair and eye color you uneducated cunt. And you will deserve it.
people like you make me want to leave this world… sick fucks like you. that shit is sick demented and wrong…. why would anyone do such a thing? this is why this country is so fucked up because of people like you..
RAWR!!! Yeah, it’s fucking ridiculous fucking dumb shit fuck!!! (Cussing makes you sound dumb. I sounded really dumb right then… It is unnecessary and you can get your point across without it
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It does indeed make you sound dumb; but was that really needed?
Yes. yes it was.
You’re all gay, get a life
Slut
burn. in. hell.
agreed.
It’s easy to say you’re sorry.
It’s not as easy to mean it.
If you say you’re sorry for doing something, and then continue to do it… you weren’t really sorry in the first place.
It leaves you broken. But why can’t I leave the one who hurts me like this.
good idea!
from one shady bitch to another.
Unfortunately, genetics aren’t quite that straightforward…..you could still get fucked. (No pun intended.)
*As a side note: I’m not really all that religious. But this point still applies: “Let him who is without sin cast the first stone.”*
So go look in a mirror. If you’ve been making caustic remarks to whoever posted this, consider the fact that you’ve probably shown just as much disregard for moral conduct as anyone. You just don’t have the guts to own up to it.
Get over it and get a life.
I have no sympathy for you.
How could I? Honestly, how could anyone who has been in that situation?
My ex cheated on me for 3 years, and he’s the reason it’s taken me over a year to even begin to trust my boyfriend of 2 years.
I have sympathy for your boyfriend, but none for you.
Believe me, it’s a bitch when you realise that the guy you wanted to marry is the reason you had to go get tested for STDs!
If you need proof of a person who really ought to look at my comment, then see above. Sorry, Kate, hun, but I doubt you are a saint.
if you want to have sex with a lot of people don’t get into a relationship…
I understand.
The way I grew up–I need to be constantly reminded that I’m appealing, attractive, and infinitely lovable.
I know you probably hate yourself for this, and–trust me–becoming a better person is hard, because you will feel tainted and dirty around people who have never been there, but ultimately it will make you happier.
I hope you realize this.
HAHAH that is fucking hilarious
that is fucking hilarious!
calling her a sorry excuse for a person would be judging.
If you’re sorry, THEN STOP DOING IT! Jeez. It’s that simple.
Do you not understand anything at all about genetics? I suggest you do some reading. The gene for blue eye color is recessive, which means that you need 2 genes for blue eyes to actually have blue eyes. On the other hand, the gene for brown eyes is dominant, so you only need one gene for brown eyes to have brown eyes. Therefore, if someone has one gene for blue eyes and one gene for brown eyes (we usually have two genes for most things like eye color, hair color, or height, getting one from each parent), the baby will have brown eyes. But even if two parents have brown eyes, they could both have one gene for blue eyes. If they each pass this gene to their baby, then the baby will have two genes for blue eyes and will actually have blue eyes.
Oh and btw, OUR son has blue eyes and we both have hazel. I didn’t cheat on him.
wow
What makes you any better than her?
You’ve never made any mistakes before?
&+Before you point fingers; make sure your hands are clean.
I really like your secret. I think admitting it to others is the first step in admitting it to your boyfriend. I love your secret a lot and I respect you for sending it in,
me too! well said! having been in similar situations, its fucking hard and never clear cut. People does this for all sorts of reasons, usually not with the thought of hurting their current partner.
Ya, that is bs and no you aren’t sorry. If you want some kind of understanding from me you at least need to be truthful, which you are most certainly not being here.
it’s one thing to cheat and to be dishonest to someone who cares about you, but to have this plan on keeping a secret and force a child to live a lie unknowingly is just wrong.
i realize your not condoning cheating but at the same time there is no way in hell she can beb sorry for something she CONTINUES to do. you cannot say your sorry and go and do the same thing over again. there is NO circumstance where cheating is okay. if you want to be with someone else then go do it. i dont need to know the specific circumstances of this relationship because either way its wrong. her saying shes sorry for doing this is actualy kind of irratating. apoligizing to this person isnt going to make them feel better after they hear that you have screwed them over again and again and again.
No, let’s judge. Let’s judge someone based on their actions. This obviously isn’t someone who has a simple lack of control. This is someone who *actively* seeks out people to sleep with. There is no way she isn’t accountable for her actions. This person isn’t sorry. If she was, she wouldn’t post her secret on here, she would tell her boyfriend/husband and try her damnedest to fix it rather than being an attention whore. A person like this, someone who has absolutely no respect for her mate or his feelings, deserves to be disciplined for their actions. Her actions are intentional!
I really hope that the husband/boyfriend in this relationship finds out and leaves this person soon, if he hasn’t already.
How about taking dating and marriage seriously like they’re supposed to be?
Am I the only one who understands how DNA works? Just because THEY look like your guy doesn’t mean their parents or grandparents do. In DNA there are dominant and recessive genes. If there’s a guy who’s a carrier for a gene your boy doesn’t have and you get pregnant and youre baby has it, then how will you explain? EX: Your boyfriend has brown eyes and so do his parents. The guy you sleep with has brown eyes, but his mom has blue. Your baby could end up having blue eyes. Explain that.
so um why do you want to hurt this man so badly does he beat your face in once a week and this is just a tactic to make him want to kill himself
Do you use protection &/or birth control? if not, than why? if you had a child not knowing who the father was…this child’s medical history, could you live w/that?
I’m gay.
Get a better insult, you douchebag.
Also, ever heard of a saying “love the sinner, hate the sin.” I understand it has religious connotations for most people, but you can’t judge someone until you’ve been in their position.
Did it ever occur to you that her husband may not treat her well?
Maybe she was abused as a child, and never fully recovered?
Maybe she’s just confused.
Don’t call her names, please.
well, I am do not agree your actions, for me cheating it´s as bad as killing, but that´s for me, I won´t judge you because postsecret is supposed to be a open blog to share things that almost anyone could know, that are in the deepest part of our hearts and we can´t be mad at that, but, personally I hope you find the forgiveness of your husband and the trust to tell him about everything.
I’ve been cheated on, I’ve been the other girl, and I’ve cheated. I respect this person post. You have no right to judge someone until you’ve walked in their shoes. Just because someone has cheated doesn’t make them a bad person. People make mistakes and sometimes it takes a LONG time for them to change their ways. You shouldn’t judge someone from the secret they’re posting. Comments really shouldn’t be allowed on here just for the fact that people bring their own opinions and bias into it. You comment about how she’s not sorry but do you really know her? Have you sat down and seriously talked with her? Do you know every little detail about her fucking life? Obviously not! So leave her alone and respect her secret. Wouldn’t you want the same in return? If you’ve got enough balls to sit here and judge everyone else. Post something about yourself and then read what people write and see how you feel…
i know! Every child deserves to know what family they came from & their true medical history. i wonder if this woman uses birth control? she should!
you don’t leave because your afraid to be left alone and think you will not find someone who loves you as much as he/she did.. understand he/she did.. i had to learn i was in love with the person i first met and realized at the end he wasn’t the same person anymore.. people change and move on.. so now you have to..
I am a cheater. I am 19 yrs old, he is my first boyfriend we have been together 2.5 years now. I am not proud in the slighest of my actions. i always look for reasons why i have cheated, because i want to experience things, i’m not really in love… but im here to admit that i am SELFISH. In highschool i was never the pretty girl, but i have grown up and now guys are talking to me, taking interest… so i go with the flow. I hate myself. I think about it everyday. My boyfirend would never in a MILLION years do this to me. I’ve told him about once incident and he stayed with me. I wish he wouldn’t so i could get out of this mess and start all over.
DEEEEEERRRRRRRP
Implying genetics works that way.
I hope your baby is type O when the father is AB
That is all true, but has nothing to do with this particular card. She is not in love with anyone. She is cheating with several men and is deliberately choosing ones that look like her hubby so she can continue to do it.