19 thoughts on “if you loved me you wouldn’t treat me like this”

  1. yeah, but it’s not that easy when he’s bi-polar..and when i dont love myself. but that’s another story.

  2. … Because every time this happens, there is someone out there who would love to treat you the way you want to be treated. I know, because I’m usually that guy.

  3. me leaving him, would be the biggest mistake of my life. he has taught me so much about myself that no one else could ever do. he has changed me in some of the best ways possible. i finally know who i am, and it feels so good that the person who showed that to me, was the boy of my dreams.

  4. He hasn’t shown you who you are. He is shaping the person you are becoming.

    You can only know who you really are when you are alone.

    And love does not have to hurt.

  5. Yup. EXACTLY. I was just floating along reading secrets and I just came across your comment and I love it. Only problem is I have told him that and he doesn’t care. strange no?

  6. “if love doesnt hurt sometimes, then it’s not real.”

    That is really sad if you truly believe that. Please reconsider your position.

  7. Darling,

    Your not leaving him would be the biggest mistake of your life. Just because someone has influenced your life for the better in some ways does NOT meant that you owe them your life. If someone hurts and abuses you time and time again they DO NOT LOVE YOU. People who truly love you will not hurt you. The person you are with is an abuser and you are being emotionally abused, if not physically. Please get help before it is too late.

  8. Love has multiple meanings that we can get from the Greek language…

    Eros – Erotic or sexual love.

    Philos – Or emotional love.. the general feeling of love.

    Agape – Wanting the best good for the object loved. This kind of love can be painful at times. Because sometimes what’s best for the person you love isn’t the easiest thing that you want to do. Sometimes what’s best for the person will cause them not to like you as much as they did before.

    Love doesn’t HAVE to hurt. But love is not always a pleasant thing that makes you feel warm and fuzzy inside.

  9. my boyfriend knows my worst fear is being alone and he always leaves me. he leaves me to hang out with his friends to smoke weed and comes home and tells me he’s sorry. its the same thing all over again the next day.

  10. If you loved me, you wouldn’t have cheated on me with her and lied to me about it. The sad part is that I’m still with you.

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