Comments on: I tell everyone I am fine with the fact I have a disability… http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/ Tell us your secret Fri, 10 Feb 2012 05:16:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: LeShun http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-10475 LeShun Wed, 28 Jul 2010 12:35:10 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-10475 I think i know exactly how you feel. I too have spina bifida and say im fine with it. It does suck having to shelve out hundreds of thousands to go doctor way too often, get teased by classmates because you're different from them and cant do the same things that they do. But you dont have to worry about all of that because your mom loved you enough to not abort you. You're special in every possible way and dont you forget that. I think i know exactly how you feel. I too have spina bifida and say im fine with it. It does suck having to shelve out hundreds of thousands to go doctor way too often, get teased by classmates because you’re different from them and cant do the same things that they do. But you dont have to worry about all of that because your mom loved you enough to not abort you. You’re special in every possible way and dont you forget that.

]]> By: Silver http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-9708 Silver Mon, 07 Jun 2010 06:52:33 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-9708 My little sister has SB, and i couldnt imagine my life without her. There would be an enormous hole. You, just by being you, fill that hole in someone's life. You are valuable and important and special. My little sister has SB, and i couldnt imagine my life without her. There would be an enormous hole. You, just by being you, fill that hole in someone’s life. You are valuable and important and special.

]]> By: Jessi http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-8880 Jessi Sat, 06 Feb 2010 23:51:29 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-8880 I feel that way to sometimes. my disability has been getting worse after my recent surgery the past 6 months. sometimes i wonder WHY ME? I feel that way to sometimes. my disability has been getting worse after my recent surgery the past 6 months. sometimes i wonder WHY ME?

]]> By: amalie http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-7887 amalie Sat, 28 Nov 2009 16:52:42 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-7887 It doesn't matter if you have a disability, every life is valuable! I have Asperger Syndrome and a lot of ppl think that means I am defective but I don't care what they think and neither should you b/c anyone who only likes "perfect" ppl is a worthless troll It doesn’t matter if you have a disability, every life is valuable! I have Asperger Syndrome and a lot of ppl think that means I am defective but I don’t care what they think and neither should you b/c anyone who only likes “perfect” ppl is a worthless troll

]]> By: SuzyQ http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-7059 SuzyQ Thu, 15 Oct 2009 22:30:55 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-7059 Im so sorry you felt that way, and I really hope that you no longer do. We all get down on ourselves now and again, but a good way to get past that is to focus on the people that love you, and the people you love. It is also pretty hard to feel bad when you're taking care of an animal! There are so many animals in shelters that can truly benefit from a little time and attention while they wait for their forever homes. Please take care and know that there are a LOT of people who care about you - many that you don't even know who have read your secret! :) P.S. - You don't have to be "fine" with your disability! It's nice that you put on a brave face, but its not required! You ARE allowed to talk about how you feel, even if its negative, or express doubts to friends and family. It's ok to struggle with feelings and emotions - just try to do as much as you can to stay happy and healthy, and let your loved ones help YOU. Im so sorry you felt that way, and I really hope that you no longer do. We all get down on ourselves now and again, but a good way to get past that is to focus on the people that love you, and the people you love. It is also pretty hard to feel bad when you’re taking care of an animal! There are so many animals in shelters that can truly benefit from a little time and attention while they wait for their forever homes. Please take care and know that there are a LOT of people who care about you – many that you don’t even know who have read your secret! :)

P.S. – You don’t have to be “fine” with your disability! It’s nice that you put on a brave face, but its not required! You ARE allowed to talk about how you feel, even if its negative, or express doubts to friends and family. It’s ok to struggle with feelings and emotions – just try to do as much as you can to stay happy and healthy, and let your loved ones help YOU.

]]> By: jessikagurl101 http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-6169 jessikagurl101 Thu, 20 Aug 2009 04:08:29 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-6169 thanks for all the comments... this was my secret i posted ages ago thanks for all the comments… this was my secret i posted ages ago

]]> By: patti http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-5371 patti Sun, 05 Jul 2009 14:11:46 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-5371 Oh I so agree. I could share some stories,,but theya re not mine to share. I hope this soul finds the love they deserve and apprechiate the fact that thier mom did the right thing. Oh I so agree. I could share some stories,,but theya re not mine to share. I hope this soul finds the love they deserve and apprechiate the fact that thier mom did the right thing.

]]> By: Rachael http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-5175 Rachael Mon, 22 Jun 2009 03:20:07 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-5175 Please don't think that. Everyone is loved. :) Please don’t think that. Everyone is loved. :)

]]> By: Greg http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-3737 Greg Mon, 13 Apr 2009 08:28:02 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-3737 I know a lot of people who are "perfect" (i'm not one of them) and most of them are worse off than any of us. I know a lot of people who are “perfect” (i’m not one of them) and most of them are worse off than any of us.

]]> By: Leslie http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-2850 Leslie Mon, 16 Mar 2009 03:06:43 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-2850 please never think that, you are special no matter who you are and what disabilities you posess. You are still you. please never think that, you are special no matter who you are and what disabilities you posess. You are still you.

]]> By: RAW WAR http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-2718 RAW WAR Thu, 12 Mar 2009 23:01:43 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-2718 i'm glad she didn't abort u just b/c u have a disability b/c then we would be reading her secret instead of urs, i hope u don't feel that way at some point in ur life i’m glad she didn’t abort u just b/c u have a disability b/c then we would be reading her secret instead of urs, i hope u don’t feel that way at some point in ur life

]]> By: artykat http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-2487 artykat Sat, 07 Mar 2009 19:48:13 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-2487 that's beautiful. that’s beautiful.

]]> By: darling http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-2245 darling Wed, 18 Feb 2009 14:48:52 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-2245 i know exactly how you feel. i know exactly how you feel.

]]> By: qwerty http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-2203 qwerty Sun, 01 Feb 2009 22:34:23 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-2203 I hope that one day you can love yourself, nit in spite of your disability, but knowing that it is a part of who you are. I hope that one day you can love yourself, nit in spite of your disability, but knowing that it is a part of who you are.

]]> By: Flumpking http://postsecretarchive.com/2009/02/i-tell-everyone-i-am-fine-with-the-fact-i-have-a-disability/comment-page-1/#comment-2199 Flumpking Sun, 01 Feb 2009 20:32:21 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=666#comment-2199 If everyone that had a disability had been aborted, there would be so much less people. It is so upsetting that you think this. If everyone that had a disability had been aborted, there would be so much less people. It is so upsetting that you think this.

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