15 thoughts on “I tell everyone I am fine with the fact I have a disability…”

  1. If everyone that had a disability had been aborted, there would be so much less people. It is so upsetting that you think this.

  2. I hope that one day you can love yourself, nit in spite of your disability, but knowing that it is a part of who you are.

  3. i’m glad she didn’t abort u just b/c u have a disability b/c then we would be reading her secret instead of urs, i hope u don’t feel that way at some point in ur life

  4. please never think that, you are special no matter who you are and what disabilities you posess. You are still you.

  5. I know a lot of people who are “perfect” (i’m not one of them) and most of them are worse off than any of us.

  6. Oh I so agree. I could share some stories,,but theya re not mine to share. I hope this soul finds the love they deserve and apprechiate the fact that thier mom did the right thing.

  7. Im so sorry you felt that way, and I really hope that you no longer do. We all get down on ourselves now and again, but a good way to get past that is to focus on the people that love you, and the people you love. It is also pretty hard to feel bad when you’re taking care of an animal! There are so many animals in shelters that can truly benefit from a little time and attention while they wait for their forever homes. Please take care and know that there are a LOT of people who care about you – many that you don’t even know who have read your secret! 🙂

    P.S. – You don’t have to be “fine” with your disability! It’s nice that you put on a brave face, but its not required! You ARE allowed to talk about how you feel, even if its negative, or express doubts to friends and family. It’s ok to struggle with feelings and emotions – just try to do as much as you can to stay happy and healthy, and let your loved ones help YOU.

  8. It doesn’t matter if you have a disability, every life is valuable! I have Asperger Syndrome and a lot of ppl think that means I am defective but I don’t care what they think and neither should you b/c anyone who only likes “perfect” ppl is a worthless troll

  9. I feel that way to sometimes. my disability has been getting worse after my recent surgery the past 6 months. sometimes i wonder WHY ME?

  10. My little sister has SB, and i couldnt imagine my life without her. There would be an enormous hole. You, just by being you, fill that hole in someone’s life. You are valuable and important and special.

  11. I think i know exactly how you feel. I too have spina bifida and say im fine with it. It does suck having to shelve out hundreds of thousands to go doctor way too often, get teased by classmates because you’re different from them and cant do the same things that they do. But you dont have to worry about all of that because your mom loved you enough to not abort you. You’re special in every possible way and dont you forget that.

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