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Why didn’t he fight for me?
December 16, 2008
Why didn’t he fight for me?
I wanted him to fight for me.
He was supposed to fight for me.
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I can relate to this, my ex and I broke up 3 times, everytime we broke up because of him (he cheated, lied) and everytime I forgave him and I’d end up asking for him back. I made one mistake and he broke up with me..now strings it along, 10 months later and he still won’t sever all ties. Guys are just as bad in relationships and I vow to never let my guard down again. ever. I just want him out of my life for good.
hmm I think I read this differently than everyone else…
my guy didn’t fight for me in that he didn’t stand up to his mother for me.
when she made up her mind to hate me, he didn’t bother fighting.
after two years and all that I stuck by him through,
he went back on everything he said to me.
it’s the worst feeling in the world knowing that I’m not worth it to him when I fought for us as much as I could.
I still don’t know why he didn’t fight for me..
I bet at one point you were sobbing and saying these exact words.
He was supposed to fight for me too.
One day someone will fight for us.
Too bad that day isn’t today, and that someone isn’t him.
It’s okay I guess knowing I wasn’t worth the fight norte effort
But it’s horrible watching u beet urself up. You didn’t fight for me and eventually u pushed me away
It’s awedul watching u blame yourself and beet yourself up
I’d still fightto keep u safe and happy baby
hun, they arn’t all the same. A guy may have messed with you, or maybe more then one. Some really mean it. I’m with a guy who really means it. Trust that someday a guy really will mean it, because one day they really will. Mine does. I love him.
You dumped me, left me when I was pregnant with our son.
I was too tired to fight for you, I had been fighting for our baby, with everyone I knew including you.
You didn’t stand up to your mother, you sided with her on abortion.
You tried to scare me into getting one and blamed our son for every issue.
You threatened to cheat on me when I was 8 weeks along and had strep because I didn’t want to go out in the zero degree weather to hang out.
You harassed me on my ex-boyfriends funeral and even said you’d sign over your rights.
Now you blame your uninvolvement solely on me when you talk to others.
You’ve never even seen this baby, nor try to. You’re a legal stranger to him.
As much as I wished you’d fought for me and stood up for me.
It’ll always hurt more knowing you didn’t even bother to fight for HIM.
He was too much of a coward to fight for me. Garrett, Why?
Fuck all of you bitches that try to play your fucking games. I’m serious. We don’t fight for you because we are sick and tired of being messed with, and we feel like a bitch who plays with us isn’t worth fighting for. If you want us back that badly than say so, but don’t expect us to be your dog and come chasing after you.
You brought that one on yourself. You completely played with him “i wanted so badly for him to beg for me back like he did so many times before..” He was sick of your shit. Good job.
I fell for the only one who fights for me, but he doesn’t love me back. He doesn’t even know. But he’s there, he’ll always be there- I finally think I’m happy with that.
… because you dragged it out so long or pushed him so close to the edge that he lost the fight against himself.
being strong hurts more than being weak.
He thought it was what you wanted, and he only wanted to make you happy
I don’t want him to fight for me. My man was selfish and cruel. He fought dirty.
And every single time he said he was fighting for me, he was only fighting to hurt me.
and i don’t blame him
i was the fool for trying to tame him
i thought i would be able to change him
make him consider me
i thought if i gave him all of my heart that he would do the same for me
and when he lied, cheated on, and belittled me
all the times that he disrespected my worth
i kept saying we could make this work
repeating this mantra of insanity
id open my heart, my soul, my legs to stroke his vanity
and he would fight for me
to stay beneath his thumb
i couldn’t feel the pressure cuz my heart was too numb.
but now i’m done
he can’t fight for me
This happened to me like in the comment #2
My boyfriends mother didn’t want us to be together. I don’t understand why didn’t he stand up for himself? Why didn’t he fight for me? Were still together but I wish he would fight for me? Why aren’t I worth the fight to him?
Being dumped can be soul crushing.
Maybe he didn’t have it in him to be rejected again.
Maybe you destroyed what fight he had left.
Maybe he respected you enough to respect your decision to leave.
If you kicked him to the curb, perhaps he got the idea that you didn’t love him any more.
And being with someone who doesn’t love you, no matter how much you love them…
It’s unfair on you both.
cause u werent worth it/he didnt want to/he was sick of it. My g/f tried to pull some shit like hey im leavin. i was like peace bitch. she was like all u had to say was please stay. and i was like nah
wow this is what i am thinking this moment and i just said those exact words not to long ago and its driving me nuts!! i want to do something about it but cant!!
My husband of nearly 10 years left me yesterday evening. 6 hours after I bought his anniversary gift.
3 days after he stroked my hair and told me things were OK. Not to worry.
No one has ever fought for me. I ache.
We were together for three years, and things started to fall apart. But everything eventually falls apart, it’s just a matter of putting things back together. I guess he never had the will, or the time, or the energy to say the things I never could. He didn’t fight for me, for us, and for that I will never forgive him.
I just broke up with the one i love the most, we love each other way to much .. But when he gets bored he like to make up a fight.. And right after that he knows how to piss me of by acting like he don’t care about it and he go nd play ps3 and go chat online and laugh with his “female” friend. Knowing that i know and i’ll be pissed for that. Yesterday i just couldn’t take it i was so hurt of his ignorince. Really hurt so i just told him i want a break up after being with him for 10 months now. He asked me why. I told him why then just simply said ok. I was hoping for a little more talking about it but he didn’t ..the problem is we always fight but we never Ever let the day go without talking about it or just fix everything. This is the first time that we fight like this and our first break up.. I miss him so much but after letting me go just like that im not sure he misses me too. And that what hurting me the most.. ._.
our secret relationship started way back 2009.. we broke up after our two long year relationship.. i dont know why.. its like once upon a tym we were together and when i woke up the next morning we dont know each other… he cut our communication for almost 1 year. he came back with an excuse that ” hes just trying to protect me” and he missed me… that was the tym that i can say im ok.. its fine with if he returns or not. .. i dont care….
but i still really love him… now that i allowed him to return in my life… whenever im asking him if he can fight for me, if he still loves me, i get nothing but sigh…
the fact that he cant fight for me while in my part i could give up evrything really hurts me,,
so i decided to cut the relationship because it will go nowhere …..
even though things ended like that i know in myself ilove him… its just that i cant feel him anymore…
sad….the man ilove the most cant fight for me…
is the fight against the world for someone worth it when the one you want to fight for already dropped his sword?