September 18, 2009 by Kay I can relate to this, my ex and I broke up 3 times, everytime we broke up because of him (he cheated, lied) and everytime I forgave him and I’d end up asking for him back. I made one mistake and he broke up with me..now strings it along, 10 months later and he still won’t sever all ties. Guys are just as bad in relationships and I vow to never let my guard down again. ever. I just want him out of my life for good.