Comments on: It’s been over a year since you dumped me

By: bear

bear — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 03:07:33 +0000

Lose the spark I hate it I mean when girls keeps trying but guy doesnt anymore sorry iam comment number 33 lol and here I go again men are just ughhh iam a man hater i hate them all i want a real guy but iam afraid he well do me wrong agian i cant stand one even one lie seriouslly

By: bear

bear — Sun, 22 Jan 2012 03:05:38 +0000

well ok I met this guy online ever since day one on phone e hit it off i met his family he met mine he said he was gonna marry me since day one that I awsome lol but then one day i had a huge accident which lift me in bed rest and he didnt come till next day thats not even the end of it. He never came back too see me ever again after dating him a year and 4 months if i can count the 4 mounth he could just call me. I never really fell in love with a man like I did with him. I could go on on on with the crap this man did too me and how he treated me but why keep saying it ill never freakin get it. When we talked that last time the breakup i asked him for half a hr harassed him and demanded him too tell me who he was talking too a girl he finally told me he as but they where not dating only talking I mean really who does that too there gf on bed rest ,,takes off when things get defficult e had a plan and soo much more a place plans and he thru it all down the drian. Oh my gosh sorry once i start talking about this i cant stop lol its just this makes me mad .. It shouldnt in febuary it well be a year ago we broken up this is a in month. Few months after hte breakup my firned looked him up on facebook and he had a girl the girl that just made me soo mad.. like i wondered what did she have i didnt then i realize she worked at his job figures she was everything he claimed he never wanted too date… oh my gosh ill stop now ahh iam gonna punch a wall if i dont..

By: still miss him

still miss him — Fri, 13 Jan 2012 06:37:31 +0000

This is still me now 3 years after breaking up, he was my high school sweetheart was with him for 13 years then we got engaged a year after and months before our wedding he broke my heart. Within 1 month i had to moved out (we were living together) find my own place and live alone for the first time on my own. Another hard thing to go through is that I work with him so I still have to see him everyday. My 3 bestfriends have supported me a lot from literally dragging me out of bed and taking me out and just keeping me company. I love them all thank them for everything they have done but like you I am still unhappy. He WAS my bestfriend

By: unknown

unknown — Fri, 30 Dec 2011 10:45:58 +0000

Alicia,
this is what im afraid of.
my current boyfriend is everything that i ever wish for. we have been together for 1 and half years now. i’ve never been happier. but im scared that one day he will just tell me everything is just a lie, because he’s just so perfect.

By: Take care

Take care — Thu, 29 Dec 2011 05:57:22 +0000

it’s been over 2yrs since me and my ex divorced, due to him being lost and wanting to find himself. He wanted to stay friends and when I finally got over it to be his friend he no longer wanted to even be that. I told him I would rather have him in my life,as my friend then nothing at all but all of a sudden it was to hard for him even tho this was his choice, and I was forced to move on. I think about him all the time, and wonder where we lost each other. He is now in a relationship that he isn’t entirely happy with.I always think what would it be like if maybe we both would have fought harder for each other,and not giving up so easily. Although he is on my mind everyday I wish him the best and try everyday to move on, everyday is a struggle,but I have hope that what is meant to be will be, and with who ever it may be with, just keep having faith.

By: ashbash

ashbash — Sun, 11 Dec 2011 20:19:05 +0000

To “Me”
I cried when i read your comment. No one has ever come so close to how i feel. This secret and the comment you made hit home. Thank you.

By: Tom Belmont

Tom Belmont — Sun, 09 Oct 2011 00:13:54 +0000

My girlfriend of 2 years left me for a guy who looks like Barack Obama the body builder lol.

I still think about her, even thought it was a year and a half ago.

The thing is though it does get easier. Keep busy, spend time with your friends, work/study/exercise or do whatever it is you do. Just don’t let it overwhelm you.

By: your.biggest.regret

your.biggest.regret — Sun, 28 Aug 2011 23:43:29 +0000

I was in love with my best friend for the longest time, and it was until he finally told me his true feelings for me. We dated for about 2 years and his reasoning for breaking up with me….according to him we lost the spark after 1 and a half months but he didn’t “have the heart to tell me then.” so he waited for our two year anniversary to do it. nows hes talking to one of my best friends behind my back even though he’ll never admit to it. he said he thinks we said i love you to each other too fast..he said it at 2 months. i said it at 9 months. and every day after he thought we lost the spark he just used me for all the sex in the world. it has been killing me every day since we broke up. i miss my best friend, but mostly i just miss him being right next to me every day and every night. then the one time we talked after our breakup he told me he missed me more than anything but he followed it up with a “but i really shouldn’t have said that to you, i don’t want to break your heart all over again.” as much as i want to….i can’t hate him…i still want him back. i don’t think i will EVER move on from him even though i have 3 amazing guys in front of me ready to date me.

By: Aurora

Aurora — Sun, 07 Aug 2011 00:35:31 +0000

These comments deeply depress me. I don’t want to be pining over him in a year, or even this time next week. Let it go; if they were right then they’d still be with you. They’re not, so accept it and move on. And for those letting their exes use them for sex… YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT. You deserve so, so much better than that. And you know what? While you are pining over the jerks that cut you out of their lives you might miss out on meeting someone a million times better for you. I am still upset and hurting over the end of my relationship… But I will NOT let it haunt me for the rest of my life. Every day I think about him less and it hurts less. I know there will be a day soon when I don’t even think about him at all. And I can’t wait for that day

By: Heart Broken

Heart Broken — Sun, 31 Jul 2011 07:17:54 +0000

I cant live a day without the guy im in love with even though i will never have him, hes my best friend and means everything to me but its been a couple monthes since the split and i will never be abe to understand that my heart still beats for him. i can never get him out of my head…….and like u, i wont if he feels the same way :/

By: jaymonigga

jaymonigga — Fri, 29 Jul 2011 10:26:11 +0000

get the fuck over it

By: jason

jason — Mon, 25 Jul 2011 17:03:46 +0000

I understand exactly what you are going through. I went through this a while ago, and then again after a 5 year long relationship recently. I don’t know if it is a healthy thing to do or not, but I used anger to get over it. The way it was done was very bad and I was so upset over it. I just had to tell myself that I would not let this keep me down and that I would move on. It has gone alright, but I still think about her every day. In time this too shall pass… I hope.

By: jaygirl

jaygirl — Sun, 17 Jul 2011 20:30:22 +0000

I too have had this happen,17 years ago and thought and dreamt about him almost every day even though I had two 8 yr long relationships since then. 4months ago I left the second relationship and got “friended” by him on fb. We’ve been together now for the last 3 months, and we both have had the same feelings all this time. Sometimes the best things come to those who wait.

By: Secret Girl

Secret Girl — Fri, 10 Jun 2011 05:44:53 +0000

I left the only truly good man I’ve ever dated because I was young and didn’t want anything serious. I loved him then but wasn’t ready for it and wanted to live my life with some freedom. It’s now 15 years later and I think about him everyday and wish I could have been the woman then that needed him and loved him the way he deserved, instead of ending up the woman now wishing and waiting for him to find and love me again.

By: K.P.

K.P. — Tue, 24 May 2011 02:04:04 +0000

It;s the very same, my ex told me he’d love me forever, he lied and I’ve let him use me for sex multiple times since we broke up because it was as close to his love as I could get.

By: B.

B. — Fri, 20 May 2011 00:32:28 +0000

I am in the EXACT same situation right now.

By: TW

TW — Fri, 06 May 2011 03:21:29 +0000

Reading this made me realize that I truly am not crazy.

By: mackenzie

mackenzie — Fri, 15 Apr 2011 08:50:42 +0000

my best friend told me the day after he dumped me..
“build a bridge and get over it.”
it’s been 3 years. i’m no where near building that bridge.

By: LY

LY — Tue, 01 Mar 2011 17:35:58 +0000

You’re not the only one, I was in a 3 years relationship and he broke up with me because of religious reasons, this breaks my heart because I really saw something different in him. Now all I see is that ALL men are the same. Its been a month and I pray every night that he’ll learn from his mistake and just come back to me, but then all I’ll do is brush him off because I’m scared of what my sister would think of me. All I want to do is just be with him and continue where we left off.

By: Yeah

Yeah — Sat, 12 Feb 2011 04:02:53 +0000

It’s been ten years…I think about him all the time. How do I get over that?

By: Miah

Miah — Sat, 05 Feb 2011 18:41:04 +0000

Accept the now, embrace it, and move on.

By: Sarah Lily

Sarah Lily — Sat, 22 Jan 2011 00:59:31 +0000

[...] this is what i’m afraid of. Posted at 7:06 PM [...]

By: Lanna

Lanna — Thu, 13 Jan 2011 02:17:33 +0000

It’s been six years, and I love him just as much. But we’ve never been together. And I still have hope that he will one day love me like I love him. Because, ever since I fell inlove with him, I only date women. He will be the only man.

By: love

love — Mon, 10 Jan 2011 23:25:22 +0000

i hear ya, it hasnt been a year yet for me either, but it hurts more and more ever day. i cant live without her even though i have my three bestfriends to help me through it. everyday i sit there and talk to myself about what could have been if her mother didnt get involved, i treated her like gold. the only reason her mother broke us up is because im a girl to. and she was upset that we were happier than she is. she didnt say that. but im thinking that that is the reason why.

By: TheHeroWillDrown

TheHeroWillDrown — Fri, 07 Jan 2011 06:59:33 +0000

Love will always find a way.

By: Lara

Lara — Tue, 04 Jan 2011 23:41:07 +0000

It’s been 8 years. He was the one. He even flirted with me a few months back. I stopped him because as far as I knew he had a girlfriend. I found out later he didn’t and now he won’t talk to me. I ruined my second (and last) chance.

By: amburger

amburger — Tue, 04 Jan 2011 08:21:14 +0000

its been over 2 yrs since I broke up with her and I miss her more as each day goes on… I wish I would have never left

By: Amber

Amber — Tue, 28 Dec 2010 07:52:34 +0000

It seems to me you will always have that first love or the one that got away the trick is to not let it get to you and hold you back so much that you let the right one slip away too because your to caught up in the past…it hurts to hear and is hard as hell to understand at some points but if you just let it go everything will work it on the end

By: B

Fri, 22 Oct 2010 02:08:27 +0000

You need to move on…

I feel exactly the way you do (it’s been a year since he left me, and I *still* think of him almost daily, unfortunately!), but you know what? All this pining and thinking over our exes, who are no longer in our lives, does nothing but take up valuable mental space and energy! Wouldn’t it be better to use all that energy to build up our lives instead?

It’s extremely hard…but fortunately it’s also do-able. Good luck!

By: Evie

Evie — Mon, 04 Oct 2010 22:13:30 +0000

A lil’ bit redundant, un got here first, but the actual handwriting is from a lady.

It’s not necessarily the style of the writing, it’s the characters, they are rounded, the actual penmanship is female.

but granted, I have brothers, so I know guys feel this way, too.

By: will

will — Tue, 24 Aug 2010 20:43:26 +0000

this looks a lot like a ex of mine also. weird.

By: leonie

leonie — Tue, 10 Aug 2010 00:28:15 +0000

This was me six months ago. And just as I started to fully move on, he came back. And as wonderful as it as that he is back and loves me., it’s very hard hard to accept that he left me and loved someone else in that time because I never stoped loving him. And he has his issues with my past in that time too.

So just remember that if any of them do come back, it’s not going to be easy. But hopefully they are all worth it (:

By: jerome87

jerome87 — Tue, 03 Aug 2010 09:42:31 +0000

I’m going through the same thing. The past year and a half was devoted to my girlfriend and now she is gone. Everything I loved to do, I also did and loved to do with her. Now I’m stuck because I’m scared to do what I used to love.

By: jennifer

jennifer — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 07:19:12 +0000

I love this post. It’s hasn’t been a year for me yet but I imagine this is how I’ll feel in a year.

By: Me

Me — Tue, 20 Jul 2010 01:01:37 +0000

This postcard and the comments in response to it really hit home. I feel for each and every one of you, I know how this goes…

I was with my exboyfriend for two-and-a-half years. He was my first real relationship, the only person I had ever really opened up to and trusted. Although we never had sex (because of moral and religious reasons), we shared everything else together, both each other’s first’s. And then, he ended it one day. His reasoning? That he had become someone he didnt want to be, and treated me horribly. We split up in order to “keep me from hating him in the end”. It hurt, but I still admired him for it. Even after splitting up and experiencing all of the hurt that I had gone through, I couldn’t bring myself to say or think one bad thing about him. I was devastated, seeing as every little thing had reminded me somehow of him. We promised to stay friends, although that quickly fell through and we stopped talking for a brief period of time. A month after the split, he used me for sex. We both had wanted it, but I had seen more in the situation than there really was. I was looking to get back together, he was not, and made that blantantly clear after the fact. I was more devastated than before, to the point where staying home in bed crying had become routine for me. We lost all contact after that… This was four months ago, and I am still not over it. I lost more than a boyfriend, but a best friend and a lifestyle. Life isn’t as enjoyable as when I was with him, and I sometimes think I am developing depression because of it. Although I put on a strong face on the outside, the inside crumbles to pieces every day. No one knows, but I still cry at night, secretly hoping that things with him and I will go back to how they were.

So heres to you, Brad. I love you. I always have, and I always will. Please think of me once in a while, because I’m always thinking of you.

By: Alicia

Alicia — Fri, 09 Jul 2010 05:03:22 +0000

He promised me everything, he promised me the world.
We talked about marriage, children and growing old together.
For three years he was my world, my everything.
Randomly one night he told me it was all a lie.
He didn’t love me and never did.
That night he walked out our apartment door and we never spoke again.
But if I could say anything to him it would be…

“Thank you. Thank you for making me a stronger person and because of that I still believe one day I’ll find “the one”. He will love me for me and he’ll feel like the luckiest man on earth.”

By: ...

... — Tue, 06 Jul 2010 18:14:05 +0000

I hate all these comments about how hurt people still are after being broken up for so long. I hate them because I fear my husband wishes she would have said yes and still thinks about her (she was his first). He wanted to kill himself after they broke up so I know he had it bad for her. Everyone says how you never love again like you loved your first and that you still think about them. Since this is annoymous, is this true for those of you who are with someone else now? My husband was my first love so I wouldn’t know.

By: swimgirl

swimgirl — Mon, 24 May 2010 01:29:49 +0000

I had same thing happen. I lived too far away and wasnt willing to take a job in another city closer to him because i was offered a better one some where else. he said i wasnt worth it and that the whole 3 years we dated was a waste

By: Taylor

Taylor — Sat, 03 Apr 2010 22:20:38 +0000

This is EXACTLY how I feel. Although oddly enough, I do find some comfort in knowing that someone actually is going through the same thing as me.

By: Douchebag

Douchebag — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 14:10:49 +0000

And oh yeah, also the picture was so obviously taken in the bathroom at her parents’ house.

Why did I have to be bored at work and stumble upon this? I hope you do move on and be happy in your life.

**If I’m wrong and this isn’t from the person I think it’s from then ignore these comments. I just had this “this isn’t gonna be good” feeling in my gut when I saw that handwriting and started reading what it said.**

By: Douchebag

Douchebag — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 12:07:04 +0000

I don’t want to sound conceited but I think I know who wrote this and I think it was written about me. I KNOW that handwriting and even the little heart drawn on the bottom right corner. She always wrote me little notes and love letters.

By: myrrh

myrrh — Wed, 10 Feb 2010 13:16:57 +0000

Thank you so much for writing this – it gave me the courage to respond. I’m in the exact situation (friends for 3 years dated for 9 months). I lost a great friend and the man I love. Everyone (including him) says he just wasn’t good enough for me. I know this isn’t the right time for us, if ever, but I’d give anything to have him back.

By: Nat

Nat — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 19:17:56 +0000

i feel exactly like this but its only been a few months im glad someone else is further on n still like is, is that bad????

By: Just that Girl

Just that Girl — Mon, 01 Feb 2010 13:50:17 +0000

It’s been just over a year for me. I still think about him every day. Even though I’m on my 4th boyfriend after him, and I know I love this guy very very much. The whole in your heart will probably never go away. Mine still burns, aches, and at times, I have to stop for a minute to orient myself. Just remember you have those best friends. I made a best friend after that buy, and he is the boy I love now. Try and move on. Good luck.

By: em

em — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 03:48:46 +0000

i wonder if my ex-boyfriend thinks about me too. every day.

By: Chris

Chris — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 13:04:47 +0000

I read this and it made me want to cry. It parallels my life so much.
Its been 3 years since the girl I love left. plenty of people will tell you you’ll get over it but in all reality you’ll never truly get over it.
The love for them will always be there. People say each day it gets better, and i guess thats true for some, though for 3 long years and I still feel as if she had just told me she no longer wanted to be with me. The feelings you get in your chest, and in places you never knew could hurt solely by emotion. Its effected my life in many different ways. I’ve never been the same since. When you love someone you intertwine that person with yourself, and when they are gone you’ll never be fully complete. But even though the memories hurt so bad, and make me cry at the most random of moments, i wouldn’t trade them for anything.

By: micalya

micalya — Fri, 25 Sep 2009 18:33:38 +0000

This hit home with me… i had been with a guy for 5 year, i than moved with my famiy and we split up. well 7 years later we got back together and talked and were still way to in to each other, so we were dating again for about 8 months out of no where he was at his parents for the day and didnt come back, didnt call nothing. it was a knife in the heart, i than found out he had cheated on me, but also had a nother girlfriend at the same time. now less than a month of us being over he was engaged. i still think of him all the time and cant stop. i dont know what to do. and than i had a post on one of my sites, well it was saying how he hurt me and stuff and all he could saw was “glad i could help” that again was a punch in the gut… and to top it off i was out having fun with some friends and saw him with his new girl and that killed the night it hurt so much to see him with someone else. i had a chance at something else but because of my fear of giving my heart again i lost that chance… its not fun having so many strong feeling for someone when you dont know if they still care at all about you.

By: Laura

Laura — Tue, 21 Jul 2009 21:40:29 +0000

I was the one that ended it and, believe me, if he’s anything like me he’s hurting just as much as you are right now.
And still misses you and everything you had no matter how hard he tries to cover it up.
But now it feels too late.
It’ll get better one day though, I can assure you of that.

By: Travis

Travis — Mon, 20 Jul 2009 03:53:53 +0000

I feel like this is Jade.

I just spend a half hour comparing a letter she wrote me to this post to make sure it was her handwriting.

I’ve been hung up on her since the day we broke up but I don’t let anyone know.

I hope one day I get to see her again.

By: kacie

kacie — Sat, 11 Jul 2009 02:51:28 +0000

the first paragraph here, could explain what happened
to me exactly. when i read it, it felt like i had typed it.
i was depressed for two years. met someone on new years of 07
and have been with him since and couldnt be happier. =]

By: Chanelle

Chanelle — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:03:33 +0000

I wish I could be strong enough to push him away too. I try to be a bitch to him but I can’t because I really, really care.

By: Chanelle

Chanelle — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:01:25 +0000

The part about everyone else thinking he’s an asshole really resonates. I don’t know why but your comment made me cry really hard.

By: Heylryn

Heylryn — Mon, 08 Jun 2009 14:41:26 +0000

I know how this feels, people are talking about pieces of themselves are missing? i lost my heart. Nothing made me feel the way he did.

and ive never had a flutter come to my heart since he left me for a girl because she was closer. *i lived 3 hours away*

I want to feel my heart again. I want to love someone so i can forget how long he’s been with her.

i want it to go away. But i know i’d run back if only he’d ask.

I love you Bradley.

By: rebecca

rebecca — Wed, 03 Jun 2009 02:59:52 +0000

that pretty much sums up my life right now

By: Questions Unanswered

Questions Unanswered — Wed, 27 May 2009 19:06:54 +0000

haha im glad i could open some eyes =]

By: John

John — Wed, 27 May 2009 15:23:42 +0000

It’s been 8 months for me and my heart doesn’t want to move on. Every morning I wake up sick to my stomache that things got this far gone. Why is it other guys get second chances but never me?

By: Claricory

Claricory — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 19:18:20 +0000

I worry my husband feels ths way about his ex.

By: Emma Renfro

Emma Renfro — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 22:45:33 +0000

i know how you feel. he had my heart and he can still have it back.

By: un

un — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 04:45:20 +0000

thankx that really put it into perspective for us, i was wondering why theres a peice of me i cant find, she has it, she can have it.

By: un

un — Thu, 19 Mar 2009 04:41:33 +0000

it could be a girl or a boy both feel the same at some point in there life im a dude and i think the same, a little empty. i still worry about this person but i wont ever love them as much as i did cause it hurts.

By: Me

Me — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 15:41:37 +0000

Pfft… try being together 8 years and still missing him for 5

By: Katiee

Katiee — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 13:42:13 +0000

oh..and we were also together for a year and half.

By: Katiee

Katiee — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 13:40:03 +0000

My boyfriend dumped me a month ago…and then a girl who I thought was my “friend” confessed to me that she had sex with him while he was with me, and her excuse was because she barely knew me and didn’t know I was such a good person and then she got to know me and felt horrible..which still isn’t a good enough excuse. I got so sick and wanted to completely VOMIT. He was the person I trusted the most, I loved the most, did things with for the very first time, and I’m so completely sensitive and fragile about those types of things…but he’s not who I thought he was at all. I was still completely in love with him, even after I found that out..he even tried to play it off like he didn’t know what i was talking about..little did he know she was right next to me when I told him I knew in a text and he said “what are you talking about?” to me and then texted her right after asking her “why’d you tell”…lets just say shit hit the fan.

he met me and cried and said I haunted him but we couldn’t get back together and that he couldn’t even begin to think of being with someone else..

a week later he has a new girlfriend. I just found this out yeserday. I know I would never wanna get back with him..but it still hurts because I can’t just tell the love for him I have to go away..I’m still in complete disbelief and shock. I’m still completely shattered and heartbroken…I don’t see how he can move on so quickly after saying all of those things he said..he’s just a liar. I’m afraid to ever give my heart out again, how can you tell who’s real anymore?

By: :(

:( — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 07:41:19 +0000

I know what you mean. Every single day I obsess over it; I think I have a problem. I’m definitely regressing.

We were best friends and had been dating for 2 years. We were Engaged and blissfully happy. One day he said it was over. Came like a sudden slap in the face. It has been 36 days. I sometimes think I’m getting better, but I really just lie to myself.

I’m going insane. It is 3 a.m. right now but every night I dream about him. I’m afraid to sleep. Instead I’ve transformed myself into an ugly ugly ugly zombie.

I really would like to believe that things will get better and that I’ll learn to trust again. But I don’t know if I do.

Help.

By: anonymous

anonymous — Wed, 04 Mar 2009 05:49:39 +0000

There is someone else out there waiting for you to find them, and trying to find you. Live and love.

By: VERVE

VERVE — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 09:20:21 +0000

Get outta there Lisa. That situation is going down like a lead balloon. Best you be far away when that happens, for your own sake.

By: sleepless heart

sleepless heart — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 05:17:23 +0000

its the writing that gives it away… it has a girlishness to it

By: Angie

Angie — Tue, 27 Jan 2009 09:36:09 +0000

It’s sad and everything.. but this still scares me because even though it seems like a loving sentiment, it’s something my ex would send in and it looks like his writing… he turned very psycho and i’m pretty such he smashed in my new boyfriend’s car window….

Things aren’t always what they seem. but still, i hope this person’s okay and they find someone truelly special.

By: Artistan

Artistan — Sun, 18 Jan 2009 11:22:02 +0000

Same boat. There is not a day that I think about her.
It is so hard, because we are still friends, and someday I wish I can read her mind.
Does she miss me? I am I fool to keep hoping?
4 months so far, I wish I can tell…

By: Leela

Leela — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 23:44:35 +0000

I understand how you feel. My boyfriend in high school, the first person I ever truly fell in love with me broke up with me because he cheated on me after a year and a half together. I felt like I got kicked in the stomach. The worst part was that I never spoke to him about it, never got any closure, until two whole years afterwards. Those two years I spent sad and depressed, when i could have been happy. I was unable to trust anyone enough to like them, let alone fall in love again. My advice to you is don’t worry about what this other person or anyone else thinks of you. Just call them up, and get what you need in terms of closure so that you can move on with the rest of your life.
I just spent six months with a guy, who ended up being the first person I have fallen in love with since the last time. We broke up yesterday because he is going away for the semester, and we might never get back together, but I am still so happy to have had that time with him. Love is always going to hurt in the end, but it is usually worth it.
Good luck, and make sure you get what you need
<3 Leela

By: jppyro

jppyro — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 18:08:12 +0000

wow thats a very good point, thats really struck me!

By: Britalin

Britalin — Sun, 11 Jan 2009 23:25:56 +0000

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… Try acid, because pharmaceutical drugs will get you addicted and Acid’s always pulled me out of a deppression. It’s what they used to use before they started with antidepressants… and you’d literally have to drink you own body weight in the stuff to kill yourself… but it’s always diluted when sold to the public.

…. Seriously, you need to move on. Yes, you love this person, yes, you’ll ALWAYS love them, yes you’ll ALWAYS be JADED… it never fully goes away, but it does get easier. Live love… move on.. you won’t be able to get over it unless you get out there and take some more chances.

Best of luck to you

By: Ava

Ava — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 22:09:22 +0000

no i’m not coming back..get over it damn it!

By: Lisa

Lisa — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 04:14:49 +0000

My boyfriend of a year and a half very recently broke up with me a month ago. He has a new “girlfriend” and she has already “broken” his heart, he came to me crying for advice and I have been there for him the past week. I have been there and acted like I’m over him but everything he says about her hurts me and I still love him, I wish i could be strong enough to push him away and let me heal. I know that there must be a perfect person for me, but I feel like he was the one. Now I just try and distract myself as much as I can.

By: lauren

lauren — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 01:59:20 +0000

i love this quote. i read it, and i read everyone’s feedback and it makes me feel so much better about everything.
my boyfriend of 9 months recently broke up with me. i feel empty. he has that part of me that i’ll never get back. never. on top of that, we were best friends for 3 years prior to dating, and had liked eachother basically that whole time as well.
everyone says things will get better. everyone says he doesn’t deserve you. i just want to get in their face and scream. i don’t, but i want to. because what it really comes down to is that…

i just want him…

By: nina

nina — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 07:14:31 +0000

I cried…..;(

By: ashlee

ashlee — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 07:07:01 +0000

omg feel the same

By: tb119

tb119 — Mon, 05 Jan 2009 05:00:19 +0000

i am glad i saw this. right now i am in the same position and i havent been able to really talk about it with anyone. i dated a guy for about three years then around march of last year he decided to take a break because things in his life were rough. i really couldnt handle it anymore so i moved on and fell in love again. right before i went to school that guy dumped me because i was going away to school but then started dating a girl who went to a college even further away. both guys are happily in love with two other girls and there isnt anything i can do about it. i think about it every day. and as bad as this sounds i miss them both for different reasons. i wish i could be happy again. i just cant find any to help me move on

By: why

why — Wed, 31 Dec 2008 14:21:07 +0000

i understand.

it hurts when the one person that you truly believe in lets you down.

but i think almost worse than the break up, worse than the end, is that people expect you to get over it. because to everyone else, you dated an asshole; someone not worth your time. they don’t understand how it’s possible for you to love someone so flawed.

but you do.

and every day hurts a little bit less.

because you should know that the relationship that you shared with that person is going to be different from any one they’ve ever had before or will ever have. because you gave a piece of yourself to that person, and for the rest of their life they will have it. and in the long run, they’ll miss you more.

By: YLI

YLI — Tue, 30 Dec 2008 00:29:44 +0000

it could be a man or a woman. i’m a guy, and i’m in exacly this position.

i’m sorry i wasn’t good enough.
you’ll find much better.
i’ll always your first
you’re my last as well.

“i still love you with everything i have in me”

By: Kat

Kat — Sun, 28 Dec 2008 12:55:59 +0000

NOTHING is wrong with you. I am on marriage number four and just for the record, I ended it every time. Like you, I realized that the guy who I was married to was not the person I wanted to share the rest of my life with. These relationships weren’t short ones either. Hubby number 1 lasted for 3 years, number 2 for 13 years, number 3 for 8 years and I just celebrated 3 years with my wonderful husband (number 4). I think you are wise for figuring out that he is the wrong person for you. End it quickly and look around. Your person who will love you and truly care for you is out there, somewhere. Hang in there.

By: Questions Unanswered

Questions Unanswered — Thu, 25 Dec 2008 05:18:51 +0000

I feel for you its happened to everyone at one point, I’m Sorry, im wondering what caused everyone to think this was a girl posting

By: heartbroken

heartbroken — Wed, 24 Dec 2008 05:22:10 +0000

I am in the same position. I never thought the man I’m with(been together 9 yrs., married 2, would ever be so self absorbed, to inflict such pain on me. He was the one person I thought TRULEY cared about ME . BUT once again (marriage #2) I was screwed over. What’s WRONG with ME?

By: bb

bb — Tue, 23 Dec 2008 05:50:31 +0000

hi, i’m in the same position as you. i just found this old quote i had saved …

And how it can actually ache in places you didn’t know you had inside you. And it doesn’t matter how many new haircuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends… you still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. And how in the hell for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he’ll see the light and show up at your door. And after all that, however long all that may be, you’ll go somewhere new. And you’ll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again. And little pieces of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, will eventually begin to fade. And then you will fall back in love again, this time with a completly different.

and i somehow got to this site, and the first secret was this one. my ex and i were together for 3 and a half years when he left me for someone else because i wan’t ready to have sex with him … i have to say its been a year and i’m still not quite over it i do think of him everyday but guess what, life goes on. it always gets better, you just need bestfriends and you need to become available. i gained about 15-20 pounds and i felt like shit. i began to feel better when i started to work out and i lost 10 pounds! then a new guy showed up, and i’m falling in love already. trust me it always gets better, theres always a light at the end of the tunnel. you need to look for the light, and never give up. i swear it will get better you just need to stop thinking about him, and keep busy making your life better without HIM in IT!

By: MLIC

MLIC — Mon, 22 Dec 2008 18:58:30 +0000

This will probably happen again and again and again…just remember that it’s not your fault, the guy in question is just looking for something different…everyone has things they look for in a person, you might just not fit these criterias…doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. For example your ex might prefer fat girls, or stupid girls…and you might be slim and smart…

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