Comments on: I hate myself for loving you

By: mini

mini — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 04:00:24 +0000

same with mine.
he then said he was falling in love with me but he wasnt sure what he wanted.
I hope one day he realizes we are meant to be.

By: Emily

Emily — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 03:19:03 +0000

You deserve someone so much better than her, i hope you have now found that someone!

By: Anonymous Continued...

Anonymous Continued... — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 05:20:29 +0000

Hi, i am the original poster of the message on 2009-12-17 17:05:46 about my bestfriend who thought i had slept with someone while i was away. I just wanted to share with all of you that after hating him for not loving me anymore for years, i have finally learned to let it go. He still likes to make fun of me and tease me whenever he can but i know now that what we had was in the past and at this moment in my life, i dont really need him, he was a great friend and a great person to be around at the time but you have to put the past behind you and learn to be bigger than the problem inront of you. Id like to ask every girl on this site who said that they knew of my position to ask themselves these questions….
1. Did you really love them, or did you blow it up to something it maybe wasn’t?
2. Did they really love you the way you thought they did, or did you imagine that too?
3. Is it really bothering you that much that he isn’t talking to you anymore?
(I doubt it )
And finally,
4. If you were to die or get hurt badly and end up in the hospital, would he be there for you?
If you answered no to any of these questions, he honestly wasnt the one for you in the first place Go out, get prettied up, keep a smile on your face constantly, have a GREAT time, and think about all the men who are just dying to know you, because, girl, YOURE FABULOUS!

By: Suzanne

Suzanne — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 03:42:48 +0000

I know how you feel. I feel in love with one of my best friends. He kissed me.. We talked everynight for a couple of weeks, then he picked the other girl instead of me. He broke my heart. I hate that I fell for someone who couldn”t catch me. We have talked about what went wrong. He told me it takes him about a month to know if he likes a girl or not.. i never got my month.. I never got the chance to prove to him how much I loved him.. Noiw I have to see him with her everyday. He broke my heart on July fourth 2009, exactly four months and ten days ago, It has never healed, I live with the pain each day and spend each night in tears wishing I had gotten my chance.

By: Kiersten Collette

Fri, 01 Jan 2010 19:59:27 +0000

I hear you I have the same problem I messed up and I dont know how to say I’m sorry and I still love you

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Sun, 27 Dec 2009 22:47:17 +0000

yup, story of my life.
:/

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Fri, 18 Dec 2009 01:05:46 +0000

I met the boy of my dreams when i was thirteen, we got along like no one else has ever gotten along before. We were bestfriends for three years, he told me he loved me and wanted to be with me. We never got the chance, my family went through a rough patch and i had to move away. We spoke to eachother every single day until one day he just didnt reply anymore. I convinced my dad to take me back to visit him so i could find out what had gone wrong, when i finally get there he ignored me and wouldnt tell me what had happened. I finally found out from a friend that oe of our mutual friends had told him that i had slept with someone while i was away (I had not) i told him that, he still does not believe me to this day. Every day i see him i see the hurt in his eyes. I miss him more than anything in the world and would give anything up to get to be with him again. Hell, id give anything in the world just to be friends with him again. I will always love you, no matter what. Please dont give up on us!

By: Nicole

Nicole — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 23:22:34 +0000

i feel the same way.
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By: Ashish Vaidya

Sun, 25 Oct 2009 19:48:48 +0000

We were together for 4 years. one day she cheated on me. she felt so guilty that she could not face me anymore. I told her i forgave her, but she never came back. now she is with the other guy even though she doesn’t love him. I hate her for not giving our love a second chance. We were so perfect together.

By: erin

erin — Sun, 25 Oct 2009 19:32:51 +0000

This secret is the story of my life. I took my boyfriend for granted, I was terrified of showing him my true feelings. He moved away and found someone else. Now he’s back and won’t give me the chance to show him how I really feel. What hurts the most is the fact that he won’t let me show him this side of me, this person that he’s been looking for all along. The fact that he cheated is all dust in the wind; it’s NOTHING compared to the hurt I feel for this. This thought is always going to be in the back of my mind, and I hate him for that.