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he should not leave u..

Would you be happier if he had stayed with you, knowing that he wanted to leave? Children don’t fix broken relationships. Grow up.

wow…you should watch maury, having a baby dont keep a man..it just makes you look..sad. good thing you lied about it and didnt actually try to do it.

Wow, way to be totally judgmental. People send in their secrets anonymously to avoid the judgment Why do you think they’re secrets in the first place. I think it’s you who should grow up.

I second that last statement

I’m sorry he left… I also think that lying to get him to stay was a mistake, because now you feel even worse. But I think he’s lucky to have someone who wanted him that badly.

Sixth!

seventh.

fail

EIGHTH
post secret is a gift.

well seems like he wanted to leave, and you were making up a excuse for him to stay with you. grow up. he would have found out you weren’t anyways

I’ll never understand why girls do this to try to keep a boy around…

There are always better boyfriends. The trick is to still have enough love left in your heart by the time you find the guy who will treat you like you want to be treated.

Spend too much time with assholes, and you will end up never trusting anyone with your heart again.

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if he loved you he wudnt have left you
although i disagree with lying to “fix” a relationship

i did this too
it turned out to be a disaster
he found out
all of our friends found out
i couldnt eat or sleep for days i felt so guilty and terrible and disgusted with myself

and finally he forgave me and we are friends now

you made a mistake, but it’s okay, just never ever do it again.
you should never have to lie to make someone stick around
someone should want to be around so badly that they never even consider leaving <3

You’re all right about Post Secret being a way for people to tell their secrets without being judged, but these are just the opinions of others…some will be good, others not so good. Hopefully no one would jump off a bridge because of some comment from a stranger telling them to grow up. Maybe the original poster of the secret will see some of the comments as constructive criticism, though I know saying “grow up” isn’t exactly any form of that. Anyways…it’s not right to try to trick someone into staying with you. Honestly, you shouldn’t have to trick someone, they should want to be with you. There are some girls who even get pregnant on purpose thinking that this will trap the guy they are with. Please don’t bring an innocent baby into this cruel world for the insane reason of trying to trap your man.

I’m a guy who had a girl do this to him. I don’t think you understand the effect it has on a man’s psyche. I wasn’t going to get back together with her regardless of pregnancy status, but rather was prepared to be a father. When I found out that she wasn’t pregnant, not only did I resent her for trying to manipulate me, but I literally lost hope in humanity. Some people aren’t made for one another, I was leaving her because that was how I felt about our relationship, not because I thought she was a bad person or couldn’t find someone else. All it accomplished was that I ended up thinking she WAS a bad person. Sorry if this sounds “judgemental” but that’s what I went through, just so you know.

Desperation is not pretty.

i’m proud of the stretch marks on my stomach that i earned through my two pregancies…it’s the ones hidden beneath my pubes i’m ashamed of…i used to brazillian wax all the time, but i’m too ashamed to even let my husband see them…

I had a girl tell me she was pregnant because she had cheated on me twice and knew I was about to leave her. I stayed with her until I caught her lie because she claimed to have Morning Sickness so early in the “pregnancy” that I looked it up and it was extremely rare to happen then. I never could have trusted her again and instead of making me want to be with her more I was scared of her and did not want to be within 100 feet of her. When I thought I was going to be a dad she almost caused me to re-enlist in the Marine Corps because whether I wanted to be with her or not I wasn’t going to let my child grow up without his/her parents. I was adopted and know the pain of growing up without them. Lying about pregnancy is about the lowest most untrustworthy thing that a girl can do to her boyfriend. If you can’t live without him, find something you can do in a positive way that will make him re-consider leaving you.

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I did the same thing. He stayed. Then I had to tell him I lost it. Now I’m terrified to tell him the truth.

At least now you know. Rather than REALLY being pregnant and him leaving you with a baby all by yourself. =( I’m so sorry honey. My boyfriend left when I told him I was “late” and might be pregnant. He didn’t care. He apologized 2 years later but I already knew that he wasn’t the kind of guy I should be with. Life sucks sometimes.