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My Parents say this to me regularly.
Thanks for the bulimia mum and dad.

i think ur mom has the right idea…fix those hips bitch

to ur mom, i say fuuck you

i get this a lot, too.
thanks for making me want to kill myself, mom.
because i have such great self esteem already, you know?
psh.

yeah…..
same problem.
my moms found puke from me purging
and still critizes me about my body.
after wards,
i fast.

My mom also judges me whenever she sees me. I live a couple of hours away so I don’t visit often. I will never understand how my boyfriend can look past that, yet my parents can’t.

Tell your mother to take a look at herself. She’s probably 30 years older than you, and more likely than not, aging has already taken it’s toll. Tell her to take a look at her own imperfections. You came out of her; I can’t comprehend how a mother could tell her own child that she is not beautiful. I’m sorry.

its the same with my dad.
i try and block it out, and pretend i dont care, it doesnt work.

parents like this just dont see what they do to their kids.
its sad.

I am HIV positive because of my father. All you bitches complaining about bulimia at least you know you can live through it.

I know how you feel

I have no tolerance for bulimics. Open your mind. I realize more about the way this world works everyday and it’s sickening. About 30 years ago Coca Cola opened a plant in India extracting groundwater leaving entire communities without access to water. They take 3liters of water to make 1 liter of Cola and they add HFCS to it and spend BILLIONS on advertising to make you believe in the natural greatness of their product when infact refined, processed foods ARE the cause of American and most worldly obese/overweight cultures. WAKE UP! There are countries without food, water, and shelter. It’s been estimated that 3900 children die every day due to lack of food. So stick your finger down your pathetic throat and purge into the mouth of a dying child and save a life. Get real. You weren’t always bulimic, you had a mindset shift. You still have control. I don’t mean this to be derogatory but you need a healthy dose of reality. Peace.

You’re really really pretty,
Your mum must be blind.

my sister goes through this, i hope she doesn’t hate my mom.

My mum does exactly the same thing, and my aunt, and my grandma, and my cousin…. But what’s funny is that I’m the smallest size in the family.
Please don’t let her get to you. She’s just voicing her own insecurities.

i know how u feel my retarded freind

Mothers like these are why I am terrified of ever having children.

Every mother I’ve ever known has made it their business to criticize their daughter’s bodies.

My mother picked on me when I was fat, and humiliated me when I was skinny.

But I realize this makes her a bitch, and why should I let some catty bitch, regardless of who they are, determine how I feel about my body or myself?

i understand how you feel. im anorexic. all thanks to my family. and till now they don’t even understand and tell me to keep fixing myself. sigh.

IM RIGHT THERE WITH YOU… MY MUM SAYS THE SAME SHIT & THE ONE TIME I CONFRONTED HER ABOUT IT SHE CONVENIENTLY “DOESNT REMEMBER”… IDK MAYBE SHE REALLY DOESNT (MAYBE SHE BLACKS OUT WHEN SHES MAD OR SOMETHING IDK) BUT IT DOESNT HURT ANY LESS

i don’t think ur fat..,i can’t see ur face but i don’t think ur ugly either

omg i thought i was the only one with a messed up mum. mine’s said the same thing to me three times and thinks its ok. shes fat as anything and looks like a witch, but shes dyed her hair to tone her witchy looks down abit! ive come to the conclusion that shes just jealous. Mothers also tend to become jealous of their daughters youth and vitality which they havent been able to hold onto..

I get attention and get called beautiful by other poeple all the time, but your mum saying this to you makes you question everything. There was an episode of Oprah that said mothers project their own insecurities on their children and that when some mums lives are’nt going well they try and supress their daughters happiness. don’t worry, just remember Cinderella and how hideous and old her step mother was and how cinderllas life turned out…

I knew a girl just like this. She called me her mom because I loved her more than her real mother did. Sure, she was curvy girl, but I always thought she was beautiful.

If I had been financially sound and it had been in any way possible, I would’ve taken her in and maybe even adopted her, even though I’m only 5 years older than she is.

I went and go through the same thing with most of my family member, mostly women. My dad and brother have for the most part been supportive, but my mom, aunts and cousins have always felt it was their right / duty to judge my body (and my life choices in general), no matter how fat or how thin. i grew up reacting to my mom, aka, wanting to be anything but her. I hated her, I hated the way she wanted, with her best intentions, to mold me into who she thought I should be (weight, outfits, lifetsyle in general). I hated that her approval was so conditional.

Now, having been in a “normal” weight for about three years, after years and years and years of binge eating and extreme dieting, or having suicidal thoughts, I still struggle to understand where their (my mom and other women’s) own suffering comes from. I struggle to put myself on their shoes and feel their own pain so I can understand the reasons for their actions. I believe that is the only way I can heal, by feeling compassion for them and for me.

I know my comment might be little consolation for a lot of women, but I wanted to share my thoughts on this in hopes that someone can find some relief in them.

Growing up my mom would always tell me that I had a terrible personality. Now I don’t think anyone really likes me.

My mom told me I was fat everyday from the time I was 8 until I was about 19 or 20, the sad thing is my weight never changed. She always said that my little sister (by 20 months, blond and blue-eyed, that sister made me a get well card once that said “Sorry you’re fat, I hope you feel better soon,” it was 13 years ago and it still hurts) was the pretty one who would get all the boys. My dad teased me too and so did my 3 other sisters, only my brother disagrees.

I think your bdy is like, perfeect sized and proportionate.

Unlike me, My mom used to force feed me becuse she didn’t udnerstand thefact that I had a fast matabolism.

I weighed only 75 pounds in 5th grade.
I’d rather be fat than skinny

My mom does the same thing, and then she turns around and does something nice for me. The irony is so mortifying that it’s hard to tell my mom how I feel. I feel you, you’re not alone

i can relate my dad calls me fat and ugly. but i try tell myself that he doesn’t realize what he’s saying. Though he must be dense to not get it. It’s hard to fake a smile and pretend it doesn’t bother you. Chin up, the best revenge is doing well

yeah, i can see that it must really suck being bagged on by your mom. I feel the same way sometimes, but i’m just terrified of telling my mom how i feel.

MY MOM SAYS THE SAME TO ME BUT IM JUST FINE I IGNORE THE FUCK OUT OF HER