Comments on: I’m worried I won’t find love again

By: S.U.

S.U. — Mon, 14 Nov 2011 22:34:44 +0000

2 and a half years of everyday contact….

Now? 3564 miles away and completely vanished…

I Miss You

By: Steven

Steven — Fri, 28 Jan 2011 08:52:36 +0000

It’s been two weeks since I moved back home, after four years of living in another city and away from family. I met a girl there, and she chased me nearly the whole time I was there. We broke up twice, because I had commitment issues, and a few months ago we had slowly started to get back together. Though we love each other, she found it hard to trust me and couldn’t give me a reason to stay when I asked her if we were ever going to really be together. When she said she didn’t know and left, I decided to pack my things. Two days before my scheduled flight back home, she says that she wants to be with me and that she would come live with me when I got settled. Now, she says she doesn’t know anymore because it’s too hard being apart. I finally try my best to be a man, and I’m worried it’s too late…

By: Jayme

Jayme — Wed, 10 Nov 2010 20:48:52 +0000

this made me cry so hard…

i miss my dad.
he re joined the military and is far away right now.
my mom is leaving him cause she found another man.
my dad did a lot of fucked up stuff while they were married. but i can’t help but hate her just a little for forgetting about him like that…and forgetting about me for her new life.

By: enigma

enigma — Sat, 16 Oct 2010 18:57:47 +0000

Love is pretty abstract, and as the pattern shows, many of these relationships seemed to be pretty short, have you wondered that maybe that’s the very reason you have been so hooked on the person? I think many times, we carry this ideal in the relationship and make the person become our ideal, and if we part before we had the time to see otherwise, we’re always gonna be stuck on how amazing they were, and how they were the only person to fill the seat. In reality, i believe we just haven’t had enough time to let reality set in. Not that I don’t believe in love, because that’s what I’m yearning for still, but i’ve changed my approach a bit, and time is one of the best indicator of true, enduring love.

By: Paula

Paula — Tue, 27 Jul 2010 16:06:02 +0000

5135 miles away. I met him for two weeks and that’s all I needed to know he’s the man I want to marry. Now, no one else compares and I can’t keep forcing myself to date others. So I stay alone, hoping for a miracle.

By: JustThatGirl

JustThatGirl — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 19:14:27 +0000

Across an ocean…he never even thinks of me now. He might be moving back, and then he’ll be the one to suffer. I’m forgetting about how much I cared for him. It feels great.
I’ll never stop remembering him though. That dampers the feeling, but it reminds me that a summer romance is still only a summer romance.

By: youneverknow

youneverknow — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 17:13:37 +0000

7000 miles… and I can’t give up until out find out that she’s the one(or not)

By: Aj

Aj — Fri, 26 Mar 2010 00:52:51 +0000

340 km. he forgets me.

By: somebody

somebody — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 23:24:47 +0000

I was scared to death I’d never be able to love agian, he lives on the other side of the ocean. He forgot about me completely when I had to leave.

I found love again. Don’t give up hope.

By: Eleni

Eleni — Sat, 12 Dec 2009 20:05:24 +0000

Hey, even if you never stop loving her, you can love other people as well.
Don’t be so frightened- she’s happy, let yourself be happy too!

By: kw

kw — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 03:09:49 +0000

the same thing happened to me. i was with him for probably only 2 weeks total. but ive never met anyone like him. im scared to say i fell in love with him, but i know its true. he went back home and hasn’t kept in touch. i think about him everyday and hope to find him at a college party sometime, even though i don’t know where he’s going to school. he was perfect.

i would love to hear how your situation worked out..its the so similar to mine. i hope you found him.

By: jessica

jessica — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 00:51:19 +0000

i don’t think she will forget..

By: Queen E

Queen E — Fri, 14 Aug 2009 17:26:11 +0000

mine moved 3,031 miles away last year. I will never stop loving him. I will never stop thinking about him.

(I know he doesn’t even remember my name)

By: find love

find love — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 03:32:14 +0000

you dont find love, love find you !

By: Kayla

Kayla — Thu, 07 May 2009 23:20:09 +0000

sorry that was to supposed to say “I’m sure that you “..

By: Kayla

Kayla — Thu, 07 May 2009 23:18:56 +0000

I’m sorry to hear that. I’m sure that will move on, and find new love that will work out.

By: chris tormos

chris tormos — Thu, 07 May 2009 03:59:28 +0000

Thanks, i wish you luck as well, unfortunately she is now engaged to be married so it didnt work out well for me. im sure ill get over it soon.

By: Kayla

Kayla — Wed, 06 May 2009 21:06:17 +0000

Thanks Chris. I’m sorry to find out you aren’t him but if you are still looking for your girl, good luck.

By: chris tormos

chris tormos — Wed, 06 May 2009 04:22:03 +0000

This secret is mine kayla, im from a suburb outside of chicago.

By: Kayla Roger

Kayla Roger — Sat, 25 Apr 2009 02:06:34 +0000

Author/artist of this secret, if you watch the comments on here, where are you from? I know this is a supposed anonymous site, but I really want to find the boy I still haven’t forgotten. Please message me back.

By: Kent

Kent — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 05:33:55 +0000

She lives roughly 1300 miles away. I only know that much now. I love her with all my heart even though she left me a year ago. I can’t seem to just “get over it,” the only person I felt really had a shot at knowing me. She allowed me one of the brief moments in my life that I actually felt real peace, joy and happiness.

She never really gave me a reason why she left me, all I know is that I think that I may never know those good feelings again… ever.

If this is true then I fear life really is measured by suffering.

By: Rachael

Rachael — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 19:08:24 +0000

I have not forgotten about you. I think about you all the time. If only you had come after me, fought for me… I thought you didn’t care. If only you had showed me. Moving on was the only way for me to be sane otherwise.

By: Samantha

Samantha — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 05:42:48 +0000

I haven’t frogetten. You know how to reach me.

By: rrudeawakening

rrudeawakening — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 04:37:21 +0000

god i wish you were him.
but you wouldn’t be, because he would never write that, you know?
i loved him because he was an asshole.
assholes don’t write stuff like this.

By: Jl

Jl — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 05:07:07 +0000

I live 2 blocks away from him…but I think he forgot all about me the day he met someone else 2 weeks after our break up.

By: Ty Wilson

Ty Wilson — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 00:27:47 +0000

I was very much in love with a guy named Travis who moved 1000 miles away and forgot all about me, I was so heartbroken and devastated and I never thought I would find love again (last year). When I was least expecting it I met Mark at a party and I’m kind of sort of falling for him. Ironically Travis called me three days ago, still in love with me but now hes the forgotten one. I’ve never been so happy.

By: cg

cg — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 19:01:58 +0000

i almost cried when i read this secret. i feel the EXACT same way..my first love lives 416 miles away from me now & even though i still think about him CONSTANTLY im 99% sure he has forgotten all about me by now..i swear i will never find anyone that can measure up to him again and that scares the crap out of me because i feel like im going to be alone forever.

By: HB

HB — Fri, 09 Jan 2009 05:24:20 +0000

2,018 miles. he still calls me for sex when he’s in town…and i do it every time just to be near him

By: JV

JV — Thu, 25 Dec 2008 23:50:35 +0000

this january it will be 4 years…
my love for him is still the same.

By: Gatta

Gatta — Sun, 21 Dec 2008 06:50:54 +0000

2742 miles.

By: Me

Me — Sun, 14 Dec 2008 03:37:54 +0000

I am in the same situation.

I fell in love with somebody this summer, but summer ended and we returned to our homes 1200 miles apart. I still think about him all the time, and I know that he has forgotten about it. I have the ridiculous hope that he’ll be a part of my life when we go to somewhat nearby colleges in September, and that he won’t be able to help falling in love with me again. But I know that won’t happen, and it hurts me to think I might never find someone like him to love. He was perfect for the little time I had him.

By: La Lady

La Lady — Sat, 13 Dec 2008 17:13:21 +0000

I hope this by a guy I dated a year and a half ago for 3 months. It was the best 3 months of my life. I fell head over heals. Before we dated I already made up my mind I was moving back home and I did.

I can’t stop thinking about him but I’m sure he’s forgetten me.

what I wouldnt give for him to be you. I’d come back tomorrow.

By: me

me — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 02:40:33 +0000

maybee the love of your life, thinks youve forgotten all about them too.

.. find them.

you will always wonder what if.

By: ej

ej — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 01:51:14 +0000

2200 miles and it still seems like he’s sitting next to me. It would be easier if I knew he had ever loved me, or even thought about me now (I know he doesn’t).

By: Vickie

Vickie — Sat, 15 Nov 2008 18:02:41 +0000

I haven’t forgotten you.

By: Samantha

Samantha — Thu, 13 Nov 2008 11:20:59 +0000

I’m worried I won’t find love again. I live with the love of my life, but he only sees me as a friend.

By: dancer221

dancer221 — Sun, 09 Nov 2008 23:08:20 +0000

I wish you were the guy I wrote to through a friend. He moved to Colorado in January or February of 2008. I think about him every day. I will never forget him.

By: Lyss

Lyss — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 23:16:05 +0000

The love of my life moved across the ocean to a completley different continent almost two years ago. (maybe it was longer… I stopped counting the time after the first six-ish months) Though the distance made us stronger at first, the strain caused things to decay in the end when we abruptly lost contact. Though I’m still swimming in a sea of memories I’ll probably never relive again, my hope has evaporated. It’s been a year, he’s 5,000 miles away and I’m a textbook definition of a hopeless romantic (or an indignant loser). I feel like the same misfit I was four years ago before I met him… We’re in the same boat, my friend.

By: VvKandiRav3rvV

VvKandiRav3rvV — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 06:30:56 +0000

my story is the same as yours. the only difference is- i moved 3,000 miles away, we confessed our love to each other over a year ago, he promised a life together with me when i move back, we have saved each others lives, i’ve been through hell and back because of him…but we still love each other

By: thearchersbows

thearchersbows — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 06:03:51 +0000

I want to move halfway across the world, the only person that i ever actually trusted turned out to just be using me for the girls i knew. He was my best friend.

By: grobinson

grobinson — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 02:55:44 +0000

My boyfriend moved halfway accross the world a year…and I can’t stop thinking about him

By: Veronica D

Veronica D — Wed, 29 Oct 2008 01:55:01 +0000

I moved 1400 miles away before I got a chance to tell someone how I feel and now it still breaks my heart every time I think that he never even thinks about me and it meant nothing to him.

By: silverwreath

silverwreath — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 01:49:21 +0000

all of your words have made me feel better and less alone, thank you

By: alexa

alexa — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 02:16:36 +0000

my boyfriend moved to colorado.

then i guess he stopped loving me.

we broke up about 3 weeks ago.

im sure hes already forgotten about me.

By: kelsey

kelsey — Wed, 15 Oct 2008 20:42:37 +0000

don’t worry love always finds a way!

By: Lauren

Lauren — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 04:21:27 +0000

I know how you feel.. my ex-boyfriend moved to a completely different continent. It’s been 5 years and I have yet to find anybody I love even half as much as him.

By: heartbreakdancer

heartbreakdancer — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 01:41:09 +0000

exactly how i feel.

i made the wrong decision when i let him go.
i hate it.

By: Bri

Bri — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 23:41:10 +0000

Wheres all the updates? This has been here forever.

By: secrets.

secrets. — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 01:48:03 +0000

tell me about it.