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Good for you. Wait until marriage, it is worth it.

Don’t pain yourself over it!! That’s awesome

So am I. I don’t really want to still be a virgin at this age, but I’m glad I haven’t had meaningless sex. I still want that first time to be special.

I’ll admit, it’s also because I’m scared.

I waited untill the right time and I will never regret that.

I am, too. I have had one opportunity, but it was the wrong time and place, even if it was the right guy.

I’m afraid that I gave up my chances with him. I’m afraid that no-one would want me if they knew I’m a virgin.

I am to, not by choice and it pains me too. At 20, i’m starting to feel like ti never will happen

i honestly wish I would have never had sex. I thought it was a good idea at the time. then once I hit 18 was when positive reinforcement started coming out. I grew up with Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera. I was prego when I heard a song called, “There’s Gotta Be More to Life.” and there totally is. I met my husband in 2007 and he’s been the best thing on earth. He’s better than everything. i would have never known him except with how i have lived my life. keep your head up!!

I am too
=(
But I hate it because I know
sex is awesome & it sucks that I
can’t find the right person to do it with..

i lost my virginity last year.
a month after i turned 18.
all of my friends lost it way before i did.. i was the last one in our group who was a virgin.
i seriously thought it was never gunna happen for me..
but i waited till it was with a guy i cared and still care sooo much about. now my only question is, if i love him or not.
but trust me, many respected me for having my virginity at 18.
hold on to it till you can find someone deserving of it.
when you lose it, you’ll realize how truly amazing it is, to be able to give ONE guy something so special.
i never really cared about my virginity until i lost it. be smart :]

goodluck!!

I lost my virginity at 24, the first chance I had. I was not raped because I wanted it, I wanted it so badly. All I wanted was to get it over with so that I would stop feeling like a weirdo. I hated every second of it, and I hated myself for not knowing “how” to do it and for not having the courage to tell him of my anxiety.

My only advice is that you do it when you want to: as hard as it is, try to not give in to social pressure, either type. It might not be a good idea to do it just because you feel you have to so as to be like the others; and it might not be a good idea to wait because you feel you have to so as to be like the others.

Good for you, you should be proud not ashamed. It is a good thing, wait until you get married it will save alot of grief and pain.

I’m 18 and I’m still a virgin, too.
And as much as I want to lose it, I’m scared: scared that it won’t be that great, and scared that I won’t find anyone to lose it to.

i am too…but there is one person that is he were to ask i would give it to him in a heartbeat

It’s never too late to lose your virginity…

But in an instant, it’s too late to go back.

i’m still a virgin. i’m 17. nevertheless, very proud of it. nothing wrong with not being a virgin.. i know probably 17 is a little young and not much right to speak. but.. seriously, what’s wrong?:]

Don’t be ashamed by it. I thought it would be terrible to be the last in our group to lose my virginity, so I slept with a guy who I USED to like and didn’t tell anyone.
It wasn’t romantic, it wasn’t fun, it wasn’t memorable.
I don’t regret it because I was ready and the next guy I slept with I really did care about, so I wasn’t nervous about messing up with him. All I’m saying is, it’s a personal decision and you shouldn’t let anyone influence you.

I’m still a virgin, and I’ll be 18 in three months. Pretty much all my friends who are 15-16 have lost it. I even know a few 14-year-olds who aren’t virgins anymore.
Sometimes they make fun of me, but I just don’t care about sex. I’d rather love someone, but everyone I’ve loved has just wanted sex or to fool around. Is it so wrong to just want watch a movie and cuddle without someone sticking their hand up my shirt or down my pants?
Secretly, I’m disgusted by people who are having sex at such a young age. I hate society’s obsession with sex.
But I’m so afraid that once I love someone enough and feel ready to sleep with them, I’ll be “too old” and be bad at it.

Being a virgin is not a burden. You should be proud that you are waiting until you know exactly what you want the moment to be like. I chose to give my virginity at 22, I didn’t lose it and no one took it from me. I gifted it to someone who made everything be so perfect that my heart and mind actually agreed that it was time.

I’m 19 and a virgin. At times I get this gut feeling of embarrassment but then I remember that my flatmate & best friend is a virgin aged 27 and I love her to pieces & respect her so much.

Being a virgin isn’t anything to worry about. Wait until you really get to know someone first and really get to like them. You should talk a lot about it first. Then sex will be so much better than if you have sex just to lose your virginity.

I felt this way for a long time. I wanted someone to love, to have sex with. I was scared I was never going to find anyone.

I met the girl of my dreams on January 2nd. I was 21. I got my first kiss on February 12, 2009, when I flew about 2,000 miles to see her. We didn’t make love that night, and I couldn’t sleep for looking at her.

I don’t recall the actual day we first had sex, or what we did. After waiting so long, I forgot to remember just how I gave away my virginity.

I’m glad that I waited for love, though. ^_^

I lost my virginity at 13
It was the worst mistake
I thought I was in love
He made me believe I was in love
I was too niave, he was too old.
Please be careful and wait,
I’d give anything to have it back.
Your so lucky to have something
so special. I envy you.

im a virgin and even tho i say i dont care i do but everytime a guy tries to do anything more then kiss me i actually turn to stone, one guy whose actually a mate (we’ve had these drunken kiss moments) calls it my freezing moments….it sucks…i know i’ll never actually be with sum1 simply cuz i cant be vunerable cuz i knw what happens to vunerable people and im not getting hurt for anyone

I am too, and I’m 25. It’s not that I haven’t had the opportunity, but I chose to save myself for marriage. It’s been tough at times and sometimes I wonder if I will be able to stay that strong, but I’m so glad I never gave in.

Deep down, I’m truly a hopeless romantic. I want the first time to be special, to be with the person I’m spending the rest of my life with. I don’t want to worry about STDs or getting caught or not having a stable home to raise a child if I get pregnant. Sex just isn’t worth all that anxiety.

I’m a virgin, and I just graduated high school…I’m only a virgin because I was in love with someone that is already in love. I hope I find someone like him.