I’m a christian girl saving herself for marriage
Who has a bondage fetish.
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You’re not alone in that.
God Bless,
Dee
I am not a girl and I am married, but I have a bondage fetish also but no one to experiment with.
Amen to that… we’re in the same boat there.
I’m right there with you. I have handcuffs. My aethesist boyfriend thinks my fetish is symbolic of how i view my religion. He’s wrong.
I’m a christian guy. Wish I could meet you…
Indeed, alone, you are not.
Im sure there is a christian boy (or girl if that is your thing) out there who is looking for you. Dont forget to be open and honest!
I wish I would have saved myslef, but my fatishes got the best of me. be strong. you’ll find the right person to tie you up eventually
Me too. Its okay! I ued to be ashamed but have come to peace with the fact that I can love GOD and handcuffs at the same time.
I am too. Dont be ashamed of it. Follow your beliefs and do what makes you happy!
This is by far my fave secret on here!!
I was totally there… In that same boat. I finally decided that I shouldn’t save myself for marriage, because there was no guarantee that I’d actually ever be legally able to get married to whoever I ended up falling in love with… Fifty-fifty odds aren’t so great.
So… I caved. And I don’t regret it.
But I respect you for trying like I did. I hope you find someone great.
Stay strong. I’m a Christian girl & doing the same thing. It’s hard, but I couldn’t be happier!
I was that girl, too.
I got married to a Christian guy with the same feelings. It worked out well for us.
So – don’t give up!
and that is perfectly fine! You will find someone that shares your values and your fetish (just please don’t make the mistake of not sharing this vital info before you marry someone!).
Bondage (between consenting adults) is not a sin. No place in the Bible says “thow shall not tie up thy lover”.
i am 16 and i have the same secret! i wish i could meet a guy with the same fetish, i would stop saving myself…keep your faith watever you do
Bondage sex is not a sin…and I have one too lol, don’t feel bad
oh trust me. . . this will be a good thing!
I’m a Pastor. I didn’t wait for marriage. I have a bondage fetish. I don’t regret waiting, just wish my husband tied me up more.
FINALLY!! I’m not alone!
im 16 and the same secret too.
(:
Me too.
I’m 25 and waiting has been hard (and I’ve made my share of mistakes), but it’ll be worth it.
I can’t believe I’ve found another Christian girl in the same boat. I’m saving myself for marriage (as of now), but went to an online personals site and let someone tie me up when I was younger. Turns out I wasn’t that ready for it. I just told someone about that experience for the first time, four years after it happened. It’s a tough secret to keep because it feels like no matter what, you’ll always be judged for something like this. It’s a good reminder that it is okay to be different while loving the Lord.
I have a bondage fetish, and lots of other fetishes. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.
My husband is studying to be a Pastor…I will be a Pastor’s Wife…and there’s nothing more we enjoy in bed than him tying me up and having his way with me.
This has got to be one of my favorite secrets on here.
I’m not Christian.
I’m not saving myself for marriage.
I’m not even straight.
But to know there’s someone out there whose feeling just as different as I do about the bondage thing…
Inspiring, honestly.
I can definitely relate. And I live in such a backward area, I wonder if I’ll ever find a man with the same inclinations…
I love knowing that im not alone
oh wow…
RIGHT WITH U!! im 20 i found the man i want to marry im waitin til marriage he is not christian but totally respects my choice… he has the handcufss already….. my o my 2yrs is soo long to wait..GRRR but i know GOD will give me the strenght
GREAT SECRET!
as long as you dont compromise your faith, you can play whatever games you want within your marriage. i’m glad i’m not the only one who has gone through this…
the right guy will come along and it’ll be worth the wait. promise.
People like the secret sharer are why I still have hope I can meet and marry a christian woman…who won’t be boring.
WHAT??.. Friends the marriage is not for selfish persons and hens; but the bondage fetich is a game for adults that it needs of imagination and care.
I may not be a Christian, but he is wrong… And ignorant.
It is wrong how turned on that makes me. Wish you were a lesbian Christian!
Hard to believe but I am in EXACTLY the same boat on both counts! Thanks so much for sharing
You. Are my identity stealer. I’ve never seen a post secret that is more like me. Identical. I figured I was the only one. Thank you so much for sharing!!
i’m a christian girl who is married and who obsesses about bondage and pain. I long for my pre christian days in college when i was gothic and bisexual…but i’m glad i’m hiding under grace.
I’m not Christian, but I am a girl saving myself… With an EXTREME bondage fetish. At least I’m not alone.
Bondage rocks, and take it from someone with expirience, if you like bondage that much, don’t marry someone who doesn’t, the sex is terrible.
P.S. If you want to have good sex on the honeymoon, don’t wait to lose your virginity there, first time is always the worst time, and sometimes so is the second,and third, and fourth.
I’m a pastor’s wife, and a Domme. There’s nothing wrong or sinful about a bondage fetish. And just because you choose to save youself for marriage doesn’t mean you can’t talk to your chosen about what you like in bed.
Favorite secret.
same here, i used to think i was crazy for having a fetish like that when i’ve never had sex.. thank you for showing me i’m not alone
Being abstinent doesn’t mean you’re a prude, it just means that you’re waiting.
My husband and I saved ourselves for marriage and it was one of the best things we’ve ever done for our relationship with each other and with the Lord. We talked about our fetishes while we were dating to make sure that we would be a good fit sexually, and it was SO worth the wait.
Be strong, girl, it’s hard but oh, so wonderful.
God bless!
just wait it out :]
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It lifts my spirits to see all these people commenting so positively on this secret. I am so glad that there are so many others feeling the same way. I’m saving myself, but am in the same boat. Just gotta find the right guy!
Dear SameBoat:
It’s tough to feel like such an outsider right where you live. I highly recommend doing an online search with several keywords. I know it will require a lot more effort and patience, but avoid Google if you can because the federal government will be all up in your business, and your dear fetish with be back to bite your @$$ off in court if you ever get attacked by some rapist who uses bondage against you (it can happen to anyone). You can do a search in the metropolitan area nearest you, but don’t be shy about casting a larger net, and don’t feel too boxed-in to travel some and even relocate for the right one! Even having to part with family and an awesome job can be worth it if the man is that wonderful.
I’m a Christian girl with a bondage fetish who isn’t sure she’s going to save herself for marriage.
I admire you.
I’m a guy who is a dom and I’m saving myself for marriage as well. We’ll get there one day. Thanks for posting.