August 20, 2012 by Spencer I am a male who is a Dom, Christian and also saving myself for marriage. You are not alone. Bondage is the 2nd most common fetish, next being to feet (which is what I am also attracted too). God made us the way we were meant to be, there is nothing wrong or sick about you or anyone. Hang in there, I hope you and I the best in our searches for that special someone.