I screwed up my first kiss with my boyfriend because I didn’t want to disappoint him with my lack of experience.
If I could go back in time, I would punch myself.
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I kind of did the same thing. I didn’t want to disappoint him so I ended up avoiding kissing him even though it was all I wanted to do. He’s much more experienced than I am. It screwed up the relationship, and I would definetly change it if I could go back in time.
My first kiss was my boyfriend’s as well and I didn’t have the heart to tell him he was really bad at it, even though he asked if it was ok. Because of him my kissing technique left a lot to be desired with the next guy I kissed.
i haven’t even had my first kiss and im afraid to screw it up too..
my first kiss with my boyfriend was pretty awkward. So much so that when he left and I shut the door and laughed right out loud. We’ve been together for 9 months
Sometimes it just takes time – if you really care about each other it won’t matter if the first kiss isn’t so awesome.
My first kiss wasn’t even with my boyfriend.
and he never knew he was my first.
I don’t talk to him anymore.
He broke my heart.
Omg. Lol. I know that feeling. I’m so embarrassed by my first kissing try, I can barely look my ex-boyfriend in the eyes. I tried to make up for inexperience with enthusiasm and basically ended up attacking him with my tongue. I was so dumb. If I ever had a time machine, that first kiss of mine would be what I would go back and prevent.
The worst part was that he never told me how bad I was. I had to find out on my own.
HA I have messed this up so many times! Well, my actual first kiss wasn’t that bad…until i found out he was still dating the girl that he promised me he had broken up with. It was kind of nightmare lol. I was like 12. When my current boyfriend tried to kiss me for the first time, I almost compeltely attacked him hahaha he was tryign to be sweet and I nearly sexually assaulted him
I only just got my frist kiss a couple weeks ago (yeah, and Im 16…but if you’d known my bfs you wouldnt have kissed them either) and Im pretty sure I screw it up everytime he kisses me.
lol aww im sure you don’t!! haha im 16 too and trust me boys can be jerks and if you were doing it wrong they would NOT keep kissing you wrong haha!!
Well I know they are jerks lol
Im an expert on jerks.
But I dont know why he kisses me in the first place so how can I know he wouldnt keep doing it?
…hes very frustrating
I messed up my first kiss with my boyfriend too…being my awkward self.
I’m glad he didn’t stop trying even though I was too nervous to help him =) We’ve been dating almost 11 months and I wouldn’t change a thing.
I did the exact same thing
the picture looks like us also…
Kissing is so much more fun if you just stop and say
Wow, you suck. Try this.
And then you are both happy. :]
i know how you feel.
I had my first kiss with my boyfriend just over eight weeks ago. He’s two years older than I am and have kissed a few girls before me, so I was nervous to kiss him since I lacked experienced. After kissing him I just said outright, “I’ve never kissed anyone before…” And he just smiled, said I was good for a beginner, and kissed me again. Sometimes just telling him that it’s your first time will make it even more special.
I am 16 too and I have never been kissed. I am so afraid of the whole kissing experience that I avoid it. There is this guy that I really like and I am afraid of messing it all up.
I really hope my first kiss turns out like that.
I’m afraid that i am really bad at kissing.
my first and last bf always had his eyes open and it kinda freaked me out. i got distracted. so i have no idea if I’m good or not and now i have a date with a new guy….i don’t want to embarrass myself in front of him…
My girlfriend’s first kiss was mine also, I don’t think she knows it. I did what I always do, faked experience even when it was happening. I couldn’t tell you why, but I never seem to get caught…
You can still punch yourself.
At least he was your boyfriend, I screwed up my first kiss but he never ever spoke to me again, This was january and i have never spoken to him since.
My first kiss was fine. Six months later we still haven’t frenched, maybe it wasn’t as fine as I thought.
I know how you feel.My first, and second, and a few more were with someone a few years older than me, so it was especially awkward.Ha.We didn’t even mean to happen (or at least I didn’t), but it did.We don’t really talk anymore.I never told anyone about it.
Oh my gosh my boyfriend is the same way but i just cant tell him that he’s not exactlly the best…
to ginger,
dont sweat it. my first kiss was really embarassing, i wiped my mouth rite after and told him t was slobbery. that was four years ago and were planning on getting married.
i did that too
it was alright though, i wasn’t that into him.
my first kiss with my boyfriend was really awkward. so much so that he actually said right after, “that was weird.” we still haven’t frenched, either, but that’s more because i’m afraid i’ll freak him out with my lack of experience some more. i don’t know why, though. he hasn’t got any more experience than i have.
I got my first kiss at 15. We missed. It was the best kiss of my life. me and that boy have been dating for 11 months. We decided it was the most fitting kiss possible for us.
My first proper kiss was with my current bf. i was 16 and new to this town, and met my now bf. We were friends and he took me to this beautiful look out. I remember being really nervous and didnt know what to do as i didnt tell him it would be my first kiss, as he was 20. Aventually we kissed and it was soo amazing that we made out for about an hr. It was the best kiss that I have ever had and to this day I still havent told him about it. We been going out now for coming up 3 years
My first kiss was at age 20 with second boyfriend, who was almost 21 at the time, after 3 months of going out. It was his third kiss ever also. It was awful and slobbery and basically he almost tried making out with me instead of a small peck which I was expecting. I avoiding kissing him the next 3 times I saw him and ended each day with a small peck. He noticed and asked why, and we had an open conversation about it which was a little embarrassing, but we started getting better. When we made-out, I didn’t like how he shoved his tongue down my throat every chance he got, and eventually I told him. We both talked about what the other person likes/doesn’t like when kissing and he’s the most amazing kisser in my opinion. Every time our lips met, there were sparks and talking about it only helps. SO TALK!!! Don’t be worried about creating an awkward conversation, because it WILL lead to AMAZING kisses. Be mature and honest and straightforward. I like it when… I don’t like it when… Next time, do you think we could try… etc.
Dont fret too much over it. My first kiss was a mess, teeth bumping and awkward silences. But I got better. Much better. So will you- both in technique, at the right moment, and with the right person
I kinda did the same thing…but with my actual first kiss at 17…I went for his cheek but he turned his face and it ended up a really odd kiss…I honestly don’t remember that one thought because right afterwards I said “Oh that wasn’t a kiss” and just kissed him…I couldn’t believe I had done it later on…but ya…
I did that with my first kiss xP
She never let me forget it…
I’m 14 and actually had my first kiss exactly a week ago with my boyfriend. It was right before he had to go home so he just went for it. It was sooo sweet
I almost died.
yesterday he came over again and he kissed me when we were playing sports outside. This time it was a bit awkward because I guess i tilted my head a bit and it was just kinda off. I even said, “Umm that was a bit awkward.” So now i feel really bad because that was only my second kiss, even though he already knows that, but he has much more experience sooo yeah.. Any tips?