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   emily #

   09.21.2008 04:04

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   yeah. basically that’s how i feel, i want to leave
   home to live with my bi coworker who i love.
   my parents would never speak to me again.

   he’s so hot.
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   neveralone #

   01.23.2009 10:21

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   Do you think your relationship will survive if you don’t ever get the approval of your parents? My parents stifle me too at times, but to go against them for an extended period wears you down and just hurts all of you. Please be careful. There’s also studies that say people who wait for sex till marriage have longer and happier marriages. I’m making that decision because I want to say to my husband that I could wait, and it’s all for you. Good luck.
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   pixydust #

   03.15.2009 07:12

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   go for it, as long as the “dirty” is in a good way!
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   anon #

   03.28.2009 00:14

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   My grandmother disowned my mother for marrying my father, a black man.

   She came around when I was born.

   To the one with the secret: Follow your heart, don’t let anyone stop you, not even your parents. They aren’t always right, neither will they necessarily do the WRONG thing forever.

   Stand up for yourself, respect yourself, and maybe some day they will respect your decisions.
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   bellabelle #

   02.19.2010 15:09

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   I’ve been thinking the same thing for a while, but I couldn’t even find these words to admit it to myself. Thank you.
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   Ashley #

   05.07.2010 07:58

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   I am currently living with a (black) man my mother disapproves of and my dad doesn’t know about. I also live in a small white community which my mother says we will not be accepted in. At first knowing how they felt wore down on me. Then I realized I can’t not be with someone because my family disapproves. I need to live my life for me and no one else. I am happier than I have ever been before. Good for your mom!
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   tryingitall #

   07.10.2010 20:34

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   He won’t be with me because he’s too scared to tell his parents he loves me and not her but they love her. I say I’ll leave him but everytime he tells me he loves me, I believe him.
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   N #

   01.31.2011 18:47

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   Thank you, that’s exactly how I feel
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   Rachel #

   09.11.2011 11:27

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   i can relate. figure out if youd still feel dirty about him if ur parents werent there