I desperately want to serve and be used by a superior woman…
who is not my wife.
I desperately want to serve and be used by a superior woman
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I bet that’s a deep desire man, but you gotta look at it from all angles and save yourself before
Because of people like you, before I even reached my teens I decided that I am never, ever, ever going to married, no matter how much I love a person.
katy-
I know what you mean
Respect your wife and your marriage vows. If you can’t, end it with your wife. Be a man.
Although I am not married I too, have the same desire to dominate a man and get him to please me in every way I want, so I can relate to how you feel. I want to be that woman for you!
Heather, are you seriously propositioning a married man for sex through a Post Secret?
And to the keeper of this secret, many people have desires they don’t act on. It would just be yet another secret to harbor. Not worth it.
maybe u should grow a dick… and becoming an actual man.
You serious?
I understand that feeling. But if you’re going to act on it, leave your wife first.
Ok I really h8 bondage. Why do guys do that? Just to go in jail????? Damn that bondage!!!
I am a lifestyler.
I am also a Switch.
I have been dominant to many men. But only a submissive to my boyfriend.
it is the most exhilirating feeling in the world.
I think Jesus can spell.
I think women do it too or it wouldn’t work
open your mind
you just havent found the right person!
After I dominate I man i’m with, I hate them and can’t look at them anymore. But I keep doing it.
I am a professional Dominatrix…. There are many men out there like you, and many of us who love you. You’re not alone.
In my opinion, most of you sound like terrible women (and without looking at your names it’s obvious that you are women) to seek advice from. People like Kelsey and Switch have it right. For the rest of you, don’t sit there and try to shame a man for his secrets, I’m sure all of you have far nastier habits that you haven’t had the courage to reveal to anyone.
It seems to me that since this is your secret, you haven’t actually talked to your wife about it. If that’s the case, maybe the reason you want to be dominated by someone other than your wife is because you can’t see her doing it?
What if you talked to her about it? Found out if she was into things like that? It couldn’t hurt. She’s your wife. Maybe you two could come up with a solution together.
And if you really wanted to act upon it, and she wasn’t okay with it, I’d say that the match you two have made isn’t the right one. But I say give her a chance first, if you’re ever going to act on this desire.
Your fantasy is so common. Don’t be ashamed of it. There are more people like you, TONS more! e-mail me if you wanna talk about it. [email protected]
Also, Check out boundforum . com / forum and you’ll see more people who have the same desires.
Agreed
Your wife might be okay with the idea. I don’t know you guys, but she might. I came clean with my significant other, and it turns out she was open to the idea of the swinger lifestyle. We both have to be involved, even if one of us just watches. We are always totally open and honest about everything. I’m a 24/7 Dom. She is a strong woman, but she can’t Dom me. She said when she has tried, something primal flickers in my eyes and she just wants to kneel and hand over control. I don’t fully understand it, because I would prefer it be her. It takes a very strong, very powerful woman to warrant enough respect from me to release control. I have control issues in all aspects of my life, so I asked her to try, because I thought giving over control for a while would be a much welcome release… kind of like a vacation from the structure of my own mind. In any case, she can’t do it but she told me that I was welcome to find a Domme I was comfortable with. I haven’t found one yet who won’t crumple and relinquish control. Altogether the search has been rather disappointing.
i agree with you how would you feel if a woman was making the same propositions to your husbands if you were married. Not every feeling is meant to be discovered and acted upon. Pls have the decency not only to respent your wedding vows but to respect your wife as a human being.
You think maybe his talking about his wife being a bossy bitch?
I think you just made my day.
NO. He would like that.
I though this too, katy, and I met an amazing man and was married to him two months later.
DO ME!! AHHHH IM HORNY FOR YOU
I turned my Dom into my submissive. He said it made him feel free.
*prow* My kind of career. I am only nineteen, but I talk to boys and have them willing to eat shit for the pleasure of seeing me naked. *giggle*
I don’t sub for anyone. I don’t have the ability. It just isn’t in me. XD
I love hearing about men who want to be used and abused. That is my kind of guy. *grin*
HOWEVER; I think you should talk with your wife. Either you need to see if she can be your domme, see if the other woman can join your games, or leave your wife. Don’t cheat. There is no reason for that nonsense. Be a man and talk it out. Then be a sub and be gagged.
Good luck.
Instead of being slaved keep a slave , I tell you you will love it as I too have one andI love my slave, using her makes us both happy….
Whore.
I really hope you are joking heather…..what ever happened to women having an ounce of dignity? I only hope you may feel what its like to be cheated on then maybe you might not take marriage and loyalty quite so lightly!
Mirela, try not typing like a retard first. And you don’t go to jail for bondage…plus women are into it aswell…Geez.
THIS IS SOO FUCKED UP,.. THIS REMINDS ME OF MY FRIEND LEXI ROWLEY WHO LIVES IN GLADWIN MICHIGAN… ALSO lAUREN DAMITZ
Speaking as a Domme here: Serving a woman doesn’t equate to having sex with her, folks. Just a thought.
And even merely serving another woman while married (if the wife is unaware / is aware but doesn’t like it) is horrible.
What if he’s a waiter, or butler, or in the customer SERVICE industry, or an automotive SERVICE technician? You’re kind of oblivious.
Oblivious or simply aware of the meaning of ‘context’?
Too right, mate! People who aren’t in the scene just don’t understand that about it, though.
He’s not a man because he is submissive? Please. The only issue here is the possiblity he might cheat.
I understand that desire, hon. I am a Domme at heart but you shouldn’t propsistion a married man!
and mine
Allison, did you even look at the photo? This is not rocket science. Plus, wanting to serve a woman in the customer service field would not be much of a secret.
You are judging some by a PostSecret? Really? It’s a fantasy… he didn’t say he was going to act on it. And who out there doesn’t have a fantasy or two of their own? Judge not lest ye be judged.
“…but by their fruits shall ye know them…”! If you’re going to quote Scripture, don’t do it like the Libtards do, removing fragments from their context, to get it to say what they want, not what God means. Too many revisions of The Bible, too many “translations,” have turned God’s word into corned beef hash!
All of the judgmental comments about thiss are ridiculous, he has the desire but he has not acted on it, and to judge someone on feelings that they can’t control is equivalent to homophobia and other ignorant and selfish attitudes. Everyone has desires and to question his masculinity is uncalled for and shows a lack of understanding as to what being a man really is. I do agree that he should talk to his wife or leave her before acting on this
@ Daisy #
He used the word “desperately.” Are you familiar with what that means? I suppose not. He CAN control his feelings; all people can; all people control their feelings, not necessarily to a positive end. Most of those labeled homophobes are not phobic, but just hate the GLBTQ community; there’s a very big difference. The rest of the population who are labeled homophobic, are also not phobes, but in fear for a very real reason: They’re afraid they might be one of them, and would be hated as well. Homophobia is not a selfish attitude. Fear and hate are not necessarily selfish; however, being sexually attracted to a group of people with no desire or intention of ever being able to be productive to the world (building, creating, rather than having no desire or intention to create) is purely selfish. By their very nature, the GLBTQ community is selfish, as opposed to any who may fear them, et al. You’re not a very good thinker, dear. Try using your brain to the end to which God gave it you.
@breaking heart
I do not completely agree with your points… however that’s my opinion and yours is yours. I felt it was unnecessary to insult daisy at the end of your little rant. And god gave her nothing, because he does not exist.