Comments on: I almost had sex with my step brother… http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/ Tell us your secret Fri, 10 Feb 2012 05:16:50 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Relieved-Naomi http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-15359 Relieved-Naomi Tue, 11 Oct 2011 15:41:18 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-15359 Ohh ellie and anon, thank you for posting your comments. I thought i was some sort of freak or something when my brain kept replaying it in my head everytime i was intimate with someone. It's just a relief to know i'm not alone in this. Ohh ellie and anon, thank you for posting your comments. I thought i was some sort of freak or something when my brain kept replaying it in my head everytime i was intimate with someone. It’s just a relief to know i’m not alone in this.

]]> By: breaking heart http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-13133 breaking heart Sat, 19 Feb 2011 10:57:05 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-13133 LaurenL: I am so sorry that your dad did that to you. He should've been mad at his girlfriend's son, and mad at himself for putting you in such danger. He probably yelled at you because he was venting his frustration at having not protected you; sometimes dads react this way. But I empathize. My dad has yelled at me for having been raped because he really was angry that I didn't kill the guys who've done it, that I didn't bite them off or gouge out their eyes, etc. I know it hurts him that I couldn't fight them off, but my dad also never thought me how to throw a punch. I can't tell him that, though, because it's too late to change that, and I don't want him to go to his grave thinking he was a failure as a father. LaurenL:
I am so sorry that your dad did that to you. He should’ve been mad at his girlfriend’s son, and mad at himself for putting you in such danger. He probably yelled at you because he was venting his frustration at having not protected you; sometimes dads react this way. But I empathize. My dad has yelled at me for having been raped because he really was angry that I didn’t kill the guys who’ve done it, that I didn’t bite them off or gouge out their eyes, etc. I know it hurts him that I couldn’t fight them off, but my dad also never thought me how to throw a punch. I can’t tell him that, though, because it’s too late to change that, and I don’t want him to go to his grave thinking he was a failure as a father.

]]> By: LaurenL http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-12418 LaurenL Sun, 09 Jan 2011 15:38:32 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-12418 I almost did with my dad's girlfriend's son. I was 13 and he was 17. He was my first for a lot of things besides sex. He popped my cherry and when I saw blood on my underwear I didn't know what to do. When I went back to my mom's house, I didn't tell her. But she figured it out. She took me to the doctor's for vaccinations and my dad met us in the parking lot. He wanted to talk to me in his car. But when I sat in the passenger's seat all he did was start to cry and yell at me about he thought he could trust me with a boy in the house. And i've never forgotten how he blamed me. I can't respect him anymore. I almost did with my dad’s girlfriend’s son.
I was 13 and he was 17. He was my first for a lot of things besides sex. He popped my cherry and when I saw blood on my underwear I didn’t know what to do. When I went back to my mom’s house, I didn’t tell her. But she figured it out.
She took me to the doctor’s for vaccinations and my dad met us in the parking lot. He wanted to talk to me in his car. But when I sat in the passenger’s seat all he did was start to cry and yell at me about he thought he could trust me with a boy in the house. And i’ve never forgotten how he blamed me.
I can’t respect him anymore.

]]> By: CourtneyD http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-11855 CourtneyD Sat, 13 Nov 2010 02:34:30 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-11855 Well, you're not related. Its not uncommon for two unrelated people who did not grow up together to realize they are in a position to have a sexual relationship. Well, you’re not related. Its not uncommon for two unrelated people who did not grow up together to realize they are in a position to have a sexual relationship.

]]> By: ellie http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-10618 ellie Fri, 06 Aug 2010 14:39:15 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-10618 Ooh, anon! I have the same thing happen to me. It hurts my heart and I'm scared I will never be fully happy during sex because I can't help thinking about my past experiences. Ooh, anon! I have the same thing happen to me. It hurts my heart and I’m scared I will never be fully happy during sex because I can’t help thinking about my past experiences.

]]> By: Black http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-9817 Black Thu, 17 Jun 2010 20:57:17 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-9817 You should've reported him as a pedo! You should’ve reported him as a pedo!

]]> By: anon http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-8796 anon Tue, 02 Feb 2010 05:15:14 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-8796 I almost did. I was 12 he was 20ish. I got scared and told him I was tired. I'm 16 now. Sometimes, when my boyfriend has foreplay with me, the memories flash through my head, and I wish they'd never come back. I almost did. I was 12 he was 20ish. I got scared and told him I was tired. I’m 16 now. Sometimes, when my boyfriend has foreplay with me, the memories flash through my head, and I wish they’d never come back.

]]> By: Me http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-8661 Me Fri, 22 Jan 2010 17:29:09 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-8661 Me, too. Not because I wanted him, but because I was molested as a child by someone else, and my step-brother was forceful. I thank God that we never had sex. The memory of the things we did is bad enough. I hope he doesn't remember, or at least that he's chosen to forget. Me, too. Not because I wanted him, but because I was molested as a child by someone else, and my step-brother was forceful. I thank God that we never had sex. The memory of the things we did is bad enough. I hope he doesn’t remember, or at least that he’s chosen to forget.

]]> By: Someone http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-8164 Someone Mon, 14 Dec 2009 14:43:34 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-8164 I had sex with my ex step brother... funny enough this postcard was posted on my birthday. I had sex with my ex step brother… funny enough this postcard was posted on my birthday.

]]> By: Lauren http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-7564 Lauren Wed, 11 Nov 2009 21:10:10 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-7564 I did. But I never wanted it. I did.
But I never wanted it.

]]> By: katrina http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-7428 katrina Wed, 04 Nov 2009 03:04:02 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-7428 i did i did

]]> By: JustMe http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-6444 JustMe Wed, 09 Sep 2009 21:48:14 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-6444 Honestly? You're not related to him. I know a few friends that were dating and whose parents got together, you know? Do what you do. There's nothing wrong with it. Honestly? You’re not related to him. I know a few friends that were dating and whose parents got together, you know?
Do what you do.
There’s nothing wrong with it.

]]> By: Kevin http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-4105 Kevin Tue, 28 Apr 2009 16:43:33 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-4105 Was he cute? Did you love him? Nothing wrong with some mindless sex, or love between two people who are "related". Was he cute? Did you love him?

Nothing wrong with some mindless sex, or love between two people who are “related”.

]]> By: Hannah http://postsecretarchive.com/2008/09/i-almost-had-sex-with-my-step-brother/comment-page-1/#comment-1601 Hannah Sun, 14 Dec 2008 04:54:12 +0000 http://www.postsecretarchive.com/?p=335#comment-1601 I actually went to summer camp who HAD sex with the son of the man her mother is about to marry. She was twelve at the time. I actually went to summer camp who HAD sex with the son of the man her mother is about to marry.
She was twelve at the time.

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