You were my penguin, we were going to be together forever
You were my penguin, we were going to be together forever
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so afraid this is going to be me.
i asked my current boyfriend if he would be my penguin… “awww =)” was all he said… </3
ditch em and find a guy who would say yes <3
aww sometimes means yes. in guy speak.
This is how i feel, every single word…
I feel the same way… why can’t I forget him and just move on? Why did I have to fall in love with someone who didn’t love me back? </3
I am this guy. I’m sorry to see this here. I just couldn’t commit when the time came.
this is about you?
not just someone like you?
i feel sorry for you, even though the postcard makes it look like youre the bad one. i guess you had your reasons.
i think they mean they are a guy like this.
this is sad – but if you felt this way once – even if you feel broken now – there is hope – you can feel this way again, you can love again – i thought i was so broken – there is hope – there is hope – don’t let go of hope….
Must be something about penguins and together forever..
My heart jumped a beat when I read the title of this secret, because I thought it was from him.
And I don’t think I’ll ever fully be over him.
I just wish he loved me like my current boyfriend does now.
I found my penguin
I think this may be about my partner
from his ex girl friend (the one I hate because she was his first love at the age of 23)
There’s still a chance for you to find your penguin…
Free yourself…
Don’t let someone else determine your happiness..
for every great person you find, there is ALWAYS something better not too far behind.
But you have to be willing to see accept that this is true.
..on reading this again, it sounds like it could be from me.
But it’s not.
Because I know that while there is that same fear in me, I’d never go back to my ‘penguin’. Because for all the love I felt I gave I didn’t get enough back to ever be truly satisfied and happy. And I know I deserve better than that, even if it takes me a millenia to find it.
I’m scared to death that you are my ex- girlfriend. Really. Everything you said sounds like her, for all the same reasons and fears that she has. And if it is you, I hate hearing that I’ll never get a second chance.
If it is who I think it is, the number for my screen name matters. I don’t know if I’ll ever be brave enough to ask you about this in person.
My penguin and I had significant numbers, but 80 isnt one of them.
Sorry.
Even if you hadnt given that hint, you wouldn’t have been him. My ‘penguin’ acts as if we never happened, and acts as if he’s glad now that I’d never take him back.
That said, if you love someone, or still feel like there’s a chance for them, then why don’t you talk to them? Send them an email to see how they’re going, just out of the blue. Hang out, have a coffee. If you hate thinking you’ll never get a second chance, then don’t let her get away.
I know that even if it wasnt meant to be, I’d want to know if he still felt this way.
And for all you know, she might too.
is it you ? those numbers hold a great of significants to me and my ex, really wish it was him…
…ive only ever missed one guy. i had the chance to get him back. i pushed him away so i wouldnt hurt him again.
..i still miss him.
i tried talking to her, but she really hates me and i honestly have no idea why, i was trying the best i knew how.
but i know she has memories, and i know there are little things out there reminding her of me. and i’m glad i got to tattoo a picture on her back, now i know she’ll at least think of me a little when she sees it.
this could be my post secret. Please know that you are not alone.
this is me. completely &ultimately. i avoided him for almost 2 years.. &he came back when i thought i had finally found someone i could love. he’s making me insane &i feel like he’s doing it on purpose. i see him everywhere i go &it’s breaking my heart.. because i’m becoming the horrible girlfriend who may love someone else. i’m sorry.. my boyfriend deserves someone so much better. but it breaks my heart to let him go. i’m being selfish.. &i’m afraid i’m the only one who will be hurt in the end.. &the only one alone. you are not alone. your secret is safe with me, because it’s my own too.
He was and is my forever.
I met his girlfriend last week. I wish I didn’t hate her. I do.
I love him and he loves me. I dont know why he is with her.
I can’t tell you how much I relate to this.
When I was sixteen, I found my own penguin. And as we laid in bed one night he told me I would always be his penguin, because they mate for life and can always find eachother in a complete crowd of other penguins, and they would never lose eachother.
I swear I got him the almost exact stuffed penguin shortly thereafter (named Norman (:).
We got a divorce this past June, and I have never felt so alone.
Well they’re monogamous for a season.
Something like 10-20% of Emperor penguins keep the same mate from any one year to the next.
They don’t mate for life, it’s a myth.
Sorry.
That’s all fine and good.. except the nickname didn’t originate due to that myth, not in my case anyway.
Actually, Adelie penguins are 99% faithful. Most species of penguins plateau at a divorce rate of about 13%. Emperor penguins are actually the exception within the species. Thought ya’ll might like to know.
My “penguin” sits beside me everyday in class
He doesn’t really come across as gay , but he keeps making eye contact with me.
It hurts so much because I can never ask him because if he told anyone,everyone would find out I’m gay….
……. There is only one month left until the end of school and I’m afraid that if I don’t say something now….. I’ll miss my chance ……
I could have sent this – but the one line would read: “even the guy I am STILL married to”
I think about him every day even though it has been a year. I loved him so much and it hurts to know now that it would never have worked out.
thank you for sharing. i feel the exact same way.
My first love and I just ended our 2year relationship. We both just needed to experience being with other people, and it is very painful because we both still love each other very much. He said there is a chance we can get back together once we’re each out of our partying and experimenting phases of life, but I am so scared that we’ll have changed too much by then. I don’t think I could ever find love like ours. It’s a shame we met so young. (his 20th birthday was last week, and mine is in December)
That’s such a shame, i’ve been with my boyfriend for over 19 months, i’m 17 and he’s 18, we’re madly in love, I know it won’t end. His parents got married at our age, and 30 years later, they’re still together. That’s how I know. I don’t even care that he’s my first love and that I had no experience before we got together. Just to be with him forever will make my life. Don’t give up on your ex, you are both so young, it’s not the end if you both want it enough. You can have anything if you want it enough. Anything.
Sorry to break it to you Lolly, but just because his parents got together at the same age as you doesnt mean its set in stone. I met my first boyfriend and started dating him at the same age my parents met. I was convinced I was in love and that my future lay with him. Looking back now, I’m so glad that my future lays with someone else. Meeting someone while you’re young and being young and in love doesn’t always mean a forever relationship
I guess that’s so true. Thank you for the advice. I’m prepared for anything to go wrong if i’m honest. But i try not to look on the negative side of things. Only fate will decide whether two people stay together or not.
But still, don’t give up. The universe has a funny way of working, and it just might be perfectly right for you. You never can tell what lies in the future. Time is the most powerful force there is.
Court. Everything will be alright. I promise.
This shows exactly how big my fear is of being alone, and not being able to pursue the one i really want. My ex and i were together for 4 years, 2 years ago we broke up, he still calls me once a week to talk, we live in separate countries and i’m scared to go back because of the if’s and but’s and whether or not i will end up coming back again…
i secretly wish my current boyfriend would be my penguin, i really do love him. he has everything i want in a guy, but im scared to tell him, bc sometimes i feel like he doesnt feel the same way :S
i adore my current boyfried and i think he’s absolutely great… but i dont know if i love him as much as i loved my ex.. sometimes i still cry myself to sleep bc of what he did to me,but all the same i miss him dearly.,,and im terrified that i will never feel the same way about anyone else. that i will never find a penguin to be with forever..
i have the exact same penguin, given to me by the only boy who will ever have my heart. i compare everytone i meet to him. my penguins name is biggie smalls. im telling you his name in hopes he might read this one day and know that id come back to him in a heartbeat
as soon as i read the tittle, my heart jumped and i immediately opened it….. i looked at the month it was sent.. i REALLY thought it was from him… but i see it was prob a girl….. i let go of my penguin i never really gave him a reason things just didnt work out
i honestly do feel bad to hurt him he was 21 i was his first gf and he hates me… but i do wish i could apologize to WHO once was MY penguin…
you’re still my pancake…please come back
agreed. the one person, i’ve wanted for as long as i can remember..i ruined all my chances. i really don’t think i’ll ever forgive myself. i miss my hsg.
He’s someone else’s penguin
Gussy?
Gives me a good feeling to know my boyfriend who say yes if I asked him to be my penguin. I’ll have to ask him on our date tomorrow, just to make him smile. <3
…I opened this hoping that it might be a message from my penguin. I wish I could tell him I’m sorry for telling him never to talk to me again. I miss him so much.
My best friend sent me this because, well, this is my ex and I perfectly…and that’s sad. Heck, he bought me a stuffed Penguin that looks just like that that I still sleep with, and he still calls me penguin sometimes…it kills me. I have a boyfriend but my ex and I just kind of know that one day…we’ll be back together, things are just preventing it at the moment…