Comments on: killed

By: Not Needed

Not Needed — Sat, 21 May 2011 04:26:49 +0000

You’ll have a chance. Maybe i’m a little late, but God will grant you with the desires of your heart if you would simply ask it of him. You’ll be a mother one day.

By: neveralone

neveralone — Fri, 31 Dec 2010 19:26:45 +0000

im VERY PRO choice but when i was 17 i got pregant with my highschool sweetheart child . i already had a full scholorship to a university so i did it. i talked to my baby every day up until the day. he/she was only 4 weeks and after i regreted it EVERY day !!I and prayed for forgiveness . but 5 months after i had the abortion i found out i was 16 weeks pregant. i believe it was meant for me to have my first child and now im blessed with a beautyfull son that i would NEVER give up . hes my life and im so thankful!!!! i dont judge !! everyone has there on struggles and internal fights. god only puts you through so much he never puts you through more than you can handle !!!

By: Lemon

Lemon — Wed, 29 Dec 2010 15:18:10 +0000

That was to Brittany, btw.

By: Lemon

Lemon — Wed, 29 Dec 2010 15:16:43 +0000

I feel bad for your ex. He didn’t get a choice when he lost his child.

By: No Judgement

No Judgement — Wed, 03 Nov 2010 20:01:43 +0000

Shut the fuck up its not your decision.

By: Christina

Christina — Sun, 17 Oct 2010 16:51:39 +0000

Hmm, that comment was for Teresa.

By: Christina

Christina — Sun, 17 Oct 2010 16:50:47 +0000

I’m glad everything worked out.

By: thirteen

thirteen — Tue, 05 Oct 2010 22:50:51 +0000

I finally want to let this out and share it. I killed my first unborn child when I was 13. Did it again twice. I’m afraid I’ll never get the chance to be a mother… I’m 23.

By: anonanon

anonanon — Fri, 01 Oct 2010 03:29:31 +0000

do you know how many kids that get put up for adoption and stay there? its not exactly the best life for them either.

By: neverforget

neverforget — Sun, 15 Aug 2010 05:20:12 +0000

I cried when I saw this post. I’m going through the same thing, the guilt is so horrible but it was the right thing to do, the baby was the result of nonconsensual sex and I wouldn’t have been able to handle the constant reminder. May 19th 2010-I’ll never forget. I hope all of the women who are going through this pain will find peace, my thoughts are with you. Much love.

By: kabien

kabien — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 20:45:55 +0000

I found out recently that my aunt had gotten pregnant with a child while she and my uncle were trying to work out their marital problems. He had just had an affair, and she knew that he wouldn’t be around long, so she had an abortion. When my uncle found out, he divorced her. My aunt is the only one of my uncle’s former wives/girlfriends that I have ever liked, and for my uncle to have caused her that much pain pisses me off. Even more, I keep thinking of my little cousin and what kind of person he/she would have been and I honestly want to hate my uncle for stealing my chance at having a cousin to grow up with. I don’t hate people that have abortions, I just wish that they realize that they aren’t the only people affected.

By: teresa

teresa — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 15:11:59 +0000

agreed!

By: asdfghjkl;

asdfghjkl; — Sat, 17 Jul 2010 06:16:09 +0000

whatever, juzt use a fucking condom. damn,

By: Black

Black — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 19:26:31 +0000

You people are all jerks. How dare you judge someone for choosing to not bring a child into the world before they’re ready! If my mother had had any brains she would’ve aborted me when she was a pregnant teen instead of having 3 more kids and forgoing to get any kind of education or career.

By: Jill

Jill — Thu, 03 Jun 2010 18:11:33 +0000

People are sick. It’s called adoption you assholes! Let the innocent children who are a product of your stupidity at least have a chance at life; a chance at being a better human being than you are.

By: teresa

teresa — Wed, 02 Jun 2010 17:57:47 +0000

i had the termination and eventually told him. he was a gentleman. i was not ready and despite the grief involved, believe this was the best choice. …and regardless, i have changed

p.s. adoption is a great way to go, i would love to see all of the children on the waiting list get adopted (social work is my field)

By: friend99

friend99 — Sun, 17 Jan 2010 14:52:03 +0000

I know exactly what you mean. Its the scariest feeling of all.

By: Haroldo Brasil Da Luz

Haroldo Brasil Da Luz — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 00:03:00 +0000

Considering the fact that some women regret aborting one baby for several years after (maybe even to the end of her life) I don’t think that having “many more abortions” will be a wise choice.
Then again, it all depends on how many murders a woman can carry on her conscience.

By: Hmmdancer

Hmmdancer — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 23:46:47 +0000

Both of you have responsibility. Unless he was personally watching you take birth control pills every day, you can’t say it’s all your fault, just as if you’d assume he’d know how to put on a condom properly but let it slip in haste. I don’t judge you for your decision (Even though I’m prolife), however you as a partner have an obligation to tell him on some level (and your conscience knows it too!). By looking at all the previous posts you can see the majority of people would’ve rather gone by the honest route.

By: Coco

Coco — Wed, 30 Dec 2009 08:35:57 +0000

Im pro life… I had an abortion 9 mo after my second child was born…I dont regret it, I dont cry about it , and Im not sorry…did I mention Im atheist

just my 2 cents

By: Aleyna

Aleyna — Wed, 23 Dec 2009 01:26:00 +0000

I completely feel for you. It’s my one thought every single day, and i will never be able to shake that. . .

By: Don't

Don't — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 14:39:18 +0000

Don’t do it. The life inside you deserves a chance to live. Tell the father and cancel the termination. Don’t live your life with that hanging over you. If you feel like your not ready find a family to adodt the child. You don’t have to do this.

By: teresa

teresa — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 00:57:26 +0000

i read this whole string. i haven’t told the father that i am a: pregnant and b: have a termination scheduled for next week because i actually like him. for someone with little conscience, this is surprisingly plaguing. if i tell him, then he will know how careless i was; if i don’t, nothing changes except me.

By: hopeful

hopeful — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 18:30:31 +0000

I read this and cried. I have had one miscarriage and 2 abortions because I was young and financially unstable. My current BF knows about my past and has been wonderful. I was told by my doctor that my chance of trying to have a baby were slim to none. I found out last week that I am pregnant. I am happier than he will ever know and he does not want to be a dad again.

By: shannon

shannon — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 15:45:30 +0000

I can’t imagine why you would not give the baby to the father that begged for his childs life. If my boyfriend had the power to kill OUR baby without my permission while I begged for it’s life, I would be DEVESTATED.

By: Courtnny

Courtnny — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 10:03:59 +0000

I agree with abortion if it’s for a reason (eg. rape, incest, financial problems, mother’s health etc.) and I also believe that you shouldn’t judge people before you get to know them. You don’t know this woman or what her situation was during the times of both the abortions. I mean how would you like it if someone judged you before they know who you are?

By: c

Thu, 05 Nov 2009 21:29:55 +0000

i’m still a kid. i think i would get an abortion. either that or, go away, because i’m afraid of how my strict family would judge me.. but most of all i’m afraid of what he would have to give up.

By: Mother of 1

Mother of 1 — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 17:52:25 +0000

I too had an abortion at 17 not because I wanted it..because HE wanted it. He told me if I didnt have an abortion HE would kill himself because I was ruining his dream of being accepts to the Medical School of New York. I will regret this decision for the rest of my life. I now have a beautiful daughter and thank god everyday for her presence.

By: Christine

Christine — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 02:53:25 +0000

I worry about that everyday. It’s only been a month and three days. I’m not sure I’ll make it through.

By: chasminec

chasminec — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 22:34:56 +0000

oh my God, oh my God…I’ve thought the same thing ever since….it’ll be my punishment June 9, 2008, a piece of me literally died.

By: Ray

Ray — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 20:47:53 +0000

I am compleatly pro choice, and i think abortion is awfull once, so twice is just horrific.

By: Jessica

Jessica — Sun, 23 Aug 2009 18:14:54 +0000

I know that pain to. Hopefully God will forgive me someday, but for me it was the best decision to make.

By: estabien

estabien — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 19:10:45 +0000

me too…me too

By: george

george — Thu, 23 Jul 2009 15:45:54 +0000

its beyond me as to how judgemental some people can be. having an abortion is clearly a hard decision to make and one thats not made lightly be it once or twice. you dont know the reasons why this person had an abortion either time. maybe the second time she was in a worse situation than the first? unfortunatly its all to easy to judge when you’ve seen an anonomously posted paragraph but words can a powerful tool. unequiped with the facts are you really in a position to pass judgement?

By: emilydawn

emilydawn — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 05:09:34 +0000

I agree, I understand having one abortion because you can’t take care of it for financial reasons and whatnot but having another is just careless killing, there are ways to control pregnancy, you shouldn’t have to learn that twice

By: anbhmn

anbhmn — Wed, 15 Jul 2009 02:20:49 +0000

While I understand, I don’t personally feel this way but I DO hope that you can see past the dark time in your life and look toward the light. Remember that even if it can’t happen, there are thousands of children out there who’s parents abandoned them and they deserve loving homes too.

There are also many programs that talk to girls considering abortion over adoption. Who knows, maybe you can use the regrets you have to stop another girl from having them and use her as a surrogate.

By: Dani

Dani — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 17:41:33 +0000

I had a name for my baby and everything. I had a plan to run away with my best friend, and we were going to raise my child. A couple of 16 and 17 year olds, haha. Good one. When my parents found out, the decision was mine. And now my baby’s gone, and everyday I wonder if it was a boy or a girl, and every month I know they would be a little older. 13 months old. Almost to the day….

By: Ericka

Ericka — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 09:43:22 +0000

Maybe you should get fixed.

By: why?

why? — Mon, 06 Jul 2009 06:29:40 +0000

why judge?

By: knuck

knuck — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 18:28:15 +0000

well, looks like god’s sending you to hell…

j/k i hate pro-lifers… if you got pregnant once, you’re fertile, prob be able to have many more abortions!

By: den

den — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 05:04:34 +0000

I was married and never told my husband. I just think about how another child would have had such a negitive impact on our already troubled life together. I was able to get out of that terrible marriage and make a better life for myself and my child. If I had two kids to care for, I could not have finished college when I did and would not have met my new husband, who is awesome. Life is good now.
And I don’t think God is going to punish you for making the decision that was right for you at the time. I don’t think God works that way.

By: BlueEyes23

BlueEyes23 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 23:02:51 +0000

i went into mine thinking i was doing the right thing and then when it was actually happening i found myself balling and hurting so bad inside i thought i would lose my mind… that feeling went away and i was numb for a while, always thinking about it and him. now i have a strange habit of counting off how old she would be today… it doesnt hurt so much anymore and i am hoping and praying that i will have a baby soon. im scared that first time was my only chance…im scared that he was my only chance.

By: alexa

alexa — Fri, 01 May 2009 23:02:14 +0000

For other women who feel guilty and who feel trapped by past decisions, know that there are people out there who are praying for you – for healing and for peace…. God Bless you all

By: Helen

Helen — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 19:55:30 +0000

Sorry but this is complete nonsense.

By: friday it happens

friday it happens — Thu, 30 Apr 2009 15:43:48 +0000

i agree sadly… the death is happening tomorrow for that little fetus, and a huge part of me will die as well.

By: amanda

amanda — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:55:56 +0000

i meant *pro-life.

By: amanda

amanda — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:55:29 +0000

i feel this same way, except i had a miscarriage. i would never judge a person based on their personal choices, but i am VERY por-life and i feel sympathy (i know thats not how to spell it lol) towards all of you mothers that aborted. there are numerous places that will counsel you over this depression you may be feeling. i hope you all find peace some day. =]

By: olivia7

olivia7 — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 05:20:12 +0000

I too had an abortion. It was my ex boyfriends baby, I didn’t tell him or anyone because I knew he would try and stop me. I broke up with him and pushed him away soon after because the constant guilt of what could have been. Now I wish I had told him and that he did stop me. He was my first love and only love. He would have been by my side through thick and thin. Now he’s by someone else’s side. I hate that I realize now that trying to erase him from my life wouldn’t erase the guilt of killing our child. I only destroyed two of the best things I’ve ever had.

By: Brittany

Brittany — Sat, 21 Mar 2009 02:29:19 +0000

I had an abortion at 18. && The daddy did try to stop me. He actually begged but I was set on not “ruining” my life. Now I am 26 and have been trying since 23 to get pregnant by my wonderful husband. We are having no luck. He went and got checked he is absolutely fine. && I am too terrified to tell him that I had an abortion before && afraid of what the doctors might say. I feel like since I robbed my ex of his baby that god is punishing me.

By: laura

laura — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 00:15:13 +0000

I used to worry the same thing too… until I got pregnant again…
now I’ve had two abortions.

By: Carrie

Carrie — Fri, 13 Mar 2009 20:50:53 +0000

I thought so too… but I have a beautiful son now and a precious daughter on the way. I’ll never forget the one that couldn’t be or the father who didn’t stop me.

By: Kelsey

Kelsey — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 17:32:18 +0000

Many women relate to this secret, myself included.

By: may girl

may girl — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 21:42:30 +0000

me too…..

By: Happy

Happy — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 23:50:56 +0000

Even though I’m very pro-choice, I can’t imagine the kind of pain of regretting you can feel from that. I feel for you.

By: lynne

lynne — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 19:09:38 +0000

me too….:(