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I totally understand the person who was molested and then wet her bed. It’s actually quite common for a child to wet the bed after being molested. I know I did.
Much love, and I hope peace finally finds you!
the one of the playland… that’s ocean city, maryland. it’s called Marty’s Playland… it burnt down last winter
The one about the person who works at a teen center…I understand, I am basically a councilor to all my friends. It’s easier to help others than confront my own issues.
The hockey one… those are players from my favourite team, the Vancouver Canucks! =)
i dont blame you for loving your sister a little less…i would too.
How selfish.
Me too. How could she do that, knowing that her sister would never be able to even have the option. She could at least have had the child and let her sister raise it or something!! And it’s especially awful that she waited until she was FIVE MONTHS along! Terrible :’(
It’s true…Fertility is so often wasted on women who have no idea how to be good mothers.
The name says it all ^
You get to make the decisions about YOUR unborn child, no-one else’s.
To Pro-Choice:
She gets to make the decisions about how much and why she can love and respect anyone, especially her family, too.
Note: The operative word in your posting is not “YOUR,” but rather, “child.” A child is a person, no matter whose DNA he or she has, no matter in whose womb he or she spends the first stages of his or her life.
Pro-Choice:
A man should have a say in whether his wife or girlfriend has an abortion, if he loves the baby, regardless of who impregnated his woman, unless the baby is the product of rape. When a man and a woman are in a relationship, they are supposed to make decisions TOGETHER.
“Neither the man without the woman, nor the woman without the man, in the Kingdom of God.”
TO breaking heart’s second post: if a man does feel he should have some say in his girlfriend or wife’s decision to get an abortion or not and it disagrees with what the woman thinks is right, the two of them probably shouldnt be thinking about raising a kid together since only one of them would actually ever actually be a good parent to the kid and the other would feel dead inside or look at their child with only revulsion and hate. I don’t want to have parents who hate me for something I have no control over. I do agree that couples are supposed to make decisions together, but this one decision I feel should be up to the woman, and the guys she’s with should love her enough to support her decision even if it would not be what he would have chosen–whether she is keeping the baby or aborting it.
shades_of_grey:
But life is sacred, and regardless of the competence-level of YOUR parents, aren’t YOU grateful to have been born? There have been times when I have thought my mom should have stopped procreating after her first child, or never to have procreated at all, but I (the fourth child) am grateful to be alive, and I’m grateful for each of my siblings, at the end of the day. My second-oldest sibling is not a good person, in my opinion, but he helped me become who I am today, simply by being in my family…and I can’t really complain about who I am today. There are mistakes I would never have made, if I could start all over, but none of us has that luxury, and honestly, who would want to go through adolescence all over again?
Five months is too long. She could have done it a lot earlier. At five months it could have survived on its own. Why didn’t she just wait another four months and then get rid of it?
The baby’s not your and you love her anyway?
That’s big of you.
Your lady love shouldn’t have cheated on you (the context you put it in makes it sound like she did, anyway), but it’s great to hear that you love the child anyway.
After all, yours or not, the baby needs love.
To whoever helps the teens in trouble, I do the same. I work as a juvenile probation officer, and started 6 new programs for our kids to get help ( lgbt, cutting, body image, domestic violence, std and sex ed, and smoking cessation), and I feel like a hypocrite teaching our kids not to cut, when I go home and cut my chest to feel better. I help them, because I also feel like no one will help me.
@ AUCA#
Don’t put scars on your beautiful skin. It hurts me so much to read your plight, and know I can’t do anything about it because I don’t know you. I wish I could help you stop. You must be a wonderful person, to go above and beyond, and help kids that most probation officers would despise. I actually have a lot of respect, admiration, and if it’s possible, a little love for you, just based on that information that you shared about really helping those kids, and I have been bullied by kids even in my adulthood, and have been a survivor of many felonies. Please do what I did — learn gratitude for your life (it’s a gift!) and all that you have (those things are all gifts from God, too!). It was practically eons before I learned gratitude, but it was easy just because it was an epiphany…it just happened. If I can just suddenly make a realization like this, anybody can. Sounds like a cheap cliche, but I swear, if I can learn something like that, nobody else should be holding themselves back.
To the women’s-shoe-fethish-guy:
Those are cute shoes, and they look comfortable. What brand and style are they, and in what year did you buy them? I’d like to see if I could find a pair still in good shape. (I am a woman, by the way.)
I seriously considered tricking my boyfriend into getting me pregnant so he couldn’t leave me…
My chemistry teacher fingered me behind his desk while the whole class listened to him talk… This happened more than once… He is married with a child, and I used to fantasize about him leaving his wife for me when I didn’t even like him.
NUMBER 2!!!!!!!!!!!
thank god someone finally decide to be happy! so many posts are about people wanting to die. no one appreciates anything anymore