March 31, 2009 by Friend To the one who cried at the movie but not for the thousands of Tsunami victims…don’t beat yourself up about it. That is normal human behavior. Our minds and emotional selves can only process so much. A single incident, even a fake one, is easier to digest emotionally than a real, enormous incident. We tend to file it away as a “big tragedy”, but the pain is in the details. And it’s hard to see the details in something that enormous. It’s hard to personalize OR relate to something so huge.